Welcome to R. slash Am I the But Hole, where OP's wife is literally addicted to fast food.

Am I the But Hole for completely cutting my wife off from our finances because she would not stop ordering takeout?

I'm a 41 year old guy and my wife is 39.

My wife doesn't work due to a minor disability.

It's not that she can't work, but she complains of discomfort and exhaustion the whole time.

Our discussion about her working basically ended five years ago, and I've completely

given up on the prospect of her never having a job again.

Seeing how she doesn't even come close to qualifying for disability and brings in no income,

we currently live entirely off of my salary.

I don't mind financially supporting her, but my wife's spending habits have gradually become

more and more reckless.

It began with her ordering takeout twice a week, and then that escalated into three times a week, and now she's ordering take out nearly every day.

This is all, despite our fridge being stocked constantly.

I do the shopping and I make sure to even keep our freezer full of things that she would

only have to microwave.

Last month was a particularly heavy one for her. She spent $1,176 on delivery apps alone. We cannot afford this.

There were several days that she ordered twice.

I may have reacted harshly, but on Friday I pulled money out of our savings,

completely paid off the card, and then cancelled it. I then removed all the money from our joint

account and funneled it to my own account. Apparently my wife learned about this when she tried to order

takeout. She tried to call the company who explained that the card had been

cancelled. She texted me asking what had happened and I responded that she was cut off.

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