Welcome to R. slash Am I the But Hole, where OP's mother kicks her out of the house so that she can get laid.

Am I the But Hole for refusing to stay somewhere else so that my mom can passionately hug.

I'm a 19 year old girl and it's my birthday on Saturday.

I plan to go out drinking and come home and sleep after I was done.

My mom, who's 43, came into my room the other day asking me if I want to go and stay somewhere

on that Saturday night so that she can have a man over and do the deed.

I was obviously upset by this and told her that I planned on coming home because I wanted to sleep in my own bed.

She then insisted that I go and stay with her friend because she didn't want to have to go out and do whatever.

My twin siblings would also be out of the house. They're five years old and staying with grandparents.

I said that it's not my problem and if she wants someone to stay over then I'll be coming home to sleep.

She then told me that coming home to sleep.

She then told me that she would be loud and make sure to wake me up to hear and make it clear that

she did not want me home.

This could have been a joke, but either way, that's not a normal thing to say to your kid, right?

For context, I've been hearing my mom passionately hug her boyfriends ever since I was around 10 years old,

and I've complained to her multiple times about this.

I obviously don't want to come home and hear my mom passionately hugging but I also want to sleep at home because

it's my bed and I live there too.

We've been going back and forth about this now and I'm going to stay somewhere else,

but I feel like she's wrong for asking me to leave in the first place.

I don't know what to think. I understand

where she's coming from, but still. This is a weird and gross situation and to me

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