Welcome to R. slash Am I the But Hole, where OP's husband abandons her when she's in the middle of a miscarriage.

Am I the But Hole for arguing with my husband because he left me at home while I was miscaring.

Wednesday, I got devastating news at my personal appointment that our baby had no

heartbeat at 11 weeks old.

This is our second pregnancy loss, and I'm distraught.

My doctor advised me to go home and rest

and let my body naturally release all the pregnancy contents,

which took two days to begin.

Friday afternoon, the pain started to kick in, and it increased.

My husband had previous plans of going to his friend's house for dinner,

but I felt like he should have stayed home with me to support me through this.

The pain was so intense, I was in tears, and I couldn't comfortably walk or sit.

He bought me some ibuprofen and said that he would call the check on me, but I felt that that wasn't enough. My mom offered to come over and nurture me, but I declined because I wanted him to be by my side.

After four hours of not hearing from him,

I exploded on him since he hasn't been back yet.

Now we're talking about divorce.

Yeah, I don't blame you, O.P.

If I were in your shoes, I'd be talking about divorce too.

You're going through one of the most traumatic events

that a parent could possibly go through,

not just a parent, but the mother.

And the guy's like, okay, well, I left a glass of water and some painkillers on the nightstand,

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