Welcome to R slash Am I the But Hole, where OP finds out that his wife defends a child molester.

Am I the But Hole for rethinking having a child with my wife because of what I just found out about her dad? I'm a 30 year old man. Me and my wife

Jessica, who's 32, have been married for two years and we're trying to have a baby.

Jessica has an older sister, Mary, who she isn't close to.

She told me they had a huge falling out over some family drama and they just don't speak anymore.

I asked a few times about the entire situation, but she would just say that she doesn't like talking about it and she doesn't think that it's important.

It was Jessica's brother's birthday yesterday, and we were all over at his house to celebrate.

Mary made an appearance and there was a lot of drama.

Long story short, Mary called out Jessica and her brothers for still associating with their dad when they know that he's a child mr-r.

No one was really paying any attention to Mary and I was really confused as to what the hell was going on.

When Mary left and Jessica and I went home, I asked

Jessica what the hell happened. She said that when they were kids, Mary used to

claim that their dad used to mr-t-t- her. I asked if that was true and Jessica started

stuttering. She said she knows her dad used to do bad things but that Mary cut

them off when she turned 18 and moved out. I asked her if she was admitting that

she knows her dad is a child macheter and did those things to his own daughter.

She, oh my God, she said,

she said, he doesn't do it anymore,

and he was just in a really bad place in his life.

And he apologized to Mary, so there's nothing else anyone can do for Mary.

I was honestly appalled.

I also feel so terrible for Mary.

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