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Now our first story does come from a throwaway account titled, Am I the asshole for refusing to use the money I saved from my stepdaughter's 18th birthday

gift to help with my daughter's treatment?

I'm a father of two, Bio-26 and Stepdaughter 18.

I'm lucky to have established a good relationship

with my stepdaughter that is based on mutual trust and respect. I raised her when she was two.

I don't even call her my stepdaughter, I call her my own. She always dreamed of owning a car

and hinted wanting her car for her 18th birthday for years and I took it upon myself to try and save up for one.

It took me years to save up money to be able to get her a decent car as a gift, and I felt thrilled

I was able to achieve this goal, knowing how much this means to her. I haven't bought the car yet,

and I'm currently looking for a decent around 10 to 13k. My older daughter has been struggling

with infertility and she and her husband already tried clinical route but weren't successful.

They've stopped trying for a year due to financial struggles. I visited her last week and she talked

about getting ready to go through another round of IVF.

We talked about the money and she brought up the money I saved for her step sister's car.

I tried cutting the conversation but she asked if she could borrow the money and she'll repay me

in a few months. I said no because what's the use of getting the money in a few months

when I want to buy my stepdaughter the car this month? Her husband pointed out how has parents helped with the previous treatment

cost and now it's my turn since we are family. He said my stepdaughter can get the car

any time later but logically the money should go towards a better cause. I declined saying that's her

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