Welcome to R-Slashe, am I the bad guy where OP has the sister from hell?

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Am I the bad guy for telling my sister that she can't be a scapegoat because she's actually a

piece of garbage? I'm a 20-year-old woman. I have an older sister, Jen, who's 28, and a younger

sister, Chloe, who's 17. Jen made our lives a living hell. She was rude, reckless, a liar, a thief,

everything. She refused to go to therapy and fought our mom every step of the way.

None of us could have nice things because Jen would ruin them or the moment.

She got into a screaming match with Chloe when Chloe was 11 and Jen was 22.

She was just a bad person, full stop. When she was 24, she met her current boyfriend who is a

literal godsend. Jen finally went to therapy, got a degree and has a job. She's not perfect, but I

can't acknowledge the effort as much as I dislike her. Over the past few months, she's been

making an effort to reconnect with the family. Chloe is full no contact, but me and my mom have

been seeing her. I feel like she's been lying to her therapist because she's been told that she

was the scapegoat that I was the invisible child and Chloe was the golden child. This couldn't be

further from the truth. I'll admit, at the height of Jen's spiral, mom did assume that everything

bad was caused by Jen. But that was because it had been years of the same destructive pattern of

behavior. Like, yes, Jen, you're an alcoholic. Of course she's going to assume that it was you

who stole her booze. Or assuming that she got fired from her job due to her attitude,

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