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Welcome to R-slash. Am I the butthole where OPs cheating X starts dating her sister?

Am I the butthole for telling my sister that she knew what she was getting when she settled

for my cast off X? I'm a 26-year-old woman and I was dating James, who's 26 for most of college,

and we had plans to get engaged after graduation. Two months before graduation,

I caught him planning to cheat. Nothing physical seemed to have happened yet,

but he and another girl were making plans for a weekend that he told me he was going

for a quick visit home. Cheating is an instant deal breaker for me, so it was over.

Instead of having a fight, I didn't say anything.

I just waited till after he left for home, texted him proof that I'd caught him and said,

good thing your single now, have fun, then blocked him on everything and went for a girl's

weekend with friends. James lost his mind and spent a month trying to get in contact with

me or guilt friends into helping him. The few messages that got through, I trashed without

even reading them. After a while, I thought he'd finally given up. A year later, my 24-year-old

sister announced that she wanted to bring her boyfriend home to meet the family. We didn't

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