Welcome to R-Slash, am I the bad guy, where OP is trying to emotionally torture her step-sister

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to get started. Am I the bad guy for not wanting to change my wedding's first dance song because

of my step-sisters association with it? My husband and I chose our first dance song.

My step-sister is not at all happy because she and her ex-husband also had this at their wedding,

and she said that she has a lot of memories with this particular song. She asked if I could change it.

I told her I get it, but this is what we want, and I don't want to change it. She said she understood,

but she's been acting different around me, and I can tell that she's mad and upset about it.

Most people who know about this don't think that I'm doing anything wrong, but I had my sister and

one of my friends tell me that I'm being selfish and not understanding here. Am I the bad guy?

Okay, um, down in the comments, OP answers a question. The song has come what may from the Mulan Rouge

movie. My sister sees it as their song because she and her ex first met at the movies when they both

went to watch it. Then, apparently, the restaurant they went to for their first date was also playing it,

so they took it as a sign. And as I said, they also played it at their wedding, and she also sings it

to them sometimes now. I think it's a really nice song, and I like to play it too, but I don't want

to have to change it. And then someone asks, aren't they divorced? And OP says, yes, a few months

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