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granddaughter the same wedding gift as our other grandkids first of all this is my first post on here ever I wanted an objective opinion and I've read a lot of

these kinds of posts on Facebook if I do anything wrong please tell me I'm a 70 year old woman and I'm the grandmother to five wonderful grandkids three women and two men the last of my

grandkids got married last October my husband is 70 and he and I usually get them a small gift usually the cheapest thing on the

registry then the day before the wedding we privately give them a check for forty thousand dollars we prefer that they use it for a

house but we won't force them to do so we also asked them to keep it private they all honored this request when it came to our youngest grand

daughter we bought her an air fryer the cheapest thing on the registry and we sent it in advance then she called me

furious she went off on us for being cheap and how she knew that we had money but that we didn't love her enough to

show it by getting her something more expensive we were horrified by her behavior then she went ahead and threatened to

disinvite us if we didn't send her a better gift we discussed it and bought her a China said but we didn't give her the money

that was set aside for her we decided that she didn't deserve it fast forward to last week she met up with her brother

they got to talking and she found out about the cash gift that he got she asked her cousins and found out that all of them

got the same gift she called us furious for discriminating against her we told her that it was our money and after how she

behaved we didn't want to give it to her she started crying said that she was extremely stressed and that we shouldn't have taken it to

heart we told her that we stand by our decision now she's refusing to attend Christmas and her mother our daughter in law is calling us

but holes so are we the but holes okay let's be super clear about this your granddaughter was more interested in the gift

that you gave her than you being at the wedding right she was going to disinvite you if he didn't get her something more expensive

which means the money is more important than you are so no you're not the but hole and who cares if she's stressed

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