Welcome to our slash Am I the But Hole, where OP's fiance abandons her when she's about to give birth to her baby.

Am I the But Hole for asking my fiance to skip this year's Christmas family vacation because our baby is due?

I've gone to Florida with my fiance's family for the past five years and for at least part of Christmas.

Every other year I returned before him to spend Christmas day with my family.

This year was the first time in a long time that all of his other siblings were able to overlap

dates.

My fiance has major FOMO, which is why this is a sensitive subject.

His parents have always been weird about keeping their family close.

They've never said it outright, but little things suggest they don't consider me completely

part of their family yet since we aren't married.

Also, my parents are a way overseas dealing with a grandparents emergency.

My mom has been kept in the loop though and is trying to come back as soon as she can.

So me and my fiance are both 31 and we're expecting our first baby December 30th.

His family has a vacation home in Florida and they've gone every year during the holidays for about a month until after new year.

He agreed not to go this year because of the baby, but his family is insisting that he go and come back on the 28th, which is ample time before the baby is due.

So he bought a ticket for December 15th to 28th?

Jesus, that's like two weeks!

His reasoning is that his parents really want him to be there and his siblings will also be

going. This is bothering me a lot more than I thought it would because I know pregnancies are unpredictable, especially in the

last trimester.

And if anything happens leading up to the due date, I need him here.

My parents are away until December 26, and my friends have their families, so I'll be completely alone.

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