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Heads up, I had a minor audio issue that's affecting about seven videos, and this is one of them.

Back to normal soon. Welcome to R slash Am I the Butthole where Reddit slowly convinces O.P. that she's being abused.

This next post, I'm guessing, is highly controversial. It has 10,000 comments generated over just

four days. And for context, another post with a similar number of upvotes

has 1,000 comments over 21 days, so not even 10 times as many comments. Am I the butthole for

wanting to accept a promotion, even though my boyfriend says it's not the kind of life he wants?

I'm a 25-year-old woman woman and I just got offered a pretty huge promotion

at work from being a coordinator for one business unit to becoming a global coordinator.

Oh wow. It's a big jump, both in responsibilities and salary. I've been promoted every year

since I started here. It's been three years. And this role is honestly

something I never thought that I'd reach this soon. It would be a big deal financially and career

wise. The only catch is it involves some travel. The company is actually trying to reduce travel

costs, so it wouldn't be constant. We have four business units in different parts of the world,

Europe, Asia, and South America, and I'd probably go to each once a year, for about a week each.

So in total, like four weeks a year. My boyfriend, who's 32, is not really okay with that.

He didn't give me a direct ultimatum, but when I brought it up again after he already

told me how he feels, he basically said that if I keep pushing for something he's clearly not

...