Hello everybody this is Matthew Hussie with Love Life. Do you know the number one most

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I wanted to talk today about why it's so difficult for people to enjoy a massage. I was getting

a massage recently and I found that I was suffering from a particular problem of not being

able to enjoy the massage for a little bit and I know I've had this in the past as well.

You know the difference between thinking you're going to enjoy something and then actually

enjoying it. Now there are many reasons that people don't enjoy getting a massage. One

of those reasons is that they have a stranger touching them who they don't know and they're

not comfortable with for other people. It's that they're not comfortable with their

own bodies. For other people it's that they're afraid to say what they want. But there is

one reason that I believe it's difficult for people to enjoy a massage that supersedes

all of these. That is the voice inside people's heads. It's known in some psychology as the

ego. It's the self. It's the part of you that continuously talks to yourself and tells

a story and analyzes and thinks about things past, present and future in securities. But

it's that constant voice in your head. I know that I was in this massage and literally

this is an example of some of the stuff that was going through my head. I'm laying there

and I'm thinking there's those two biographies that I really want to read. I both want to

read Churchill's biography and Franklin's biography. I really don't have time to read both.

I don't know which one to read first. That's the thing. Then I really need to read more

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