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Hump day. It's Wednesday. It's time for a quickie.

Today we are going to maybe inspire the men,

enlighten them in. I think they know but these reminders never ever hurt and you get to hear it from you know another

couple's perspective in this case the wife's but I think a lot of people will be able to relate to maybe going.

I long for this person to be be like this,

but they're just not like that. Now what? And I don't have you?

spoiler alert. I don't have this. Ah, there's the fix. I don't have that, but I can tell you where I stand

on this topic as of now and being a person who experiences this feeling. I can relate to the question of

I really wish they would be like this do this exactly and because I don't get that exactly when I want it how I want it I am now disappointed I am in a disappointed state doesn't serve either party

doesn't serve either party and this is not me saying suppress your desires, settle, it's you, not him,

or her, not me, whatever, okay?

But there are times when I do think it is someone needing to check themselves go, you know,

I'm watching apples never fall and the matriarch of the family said something along the lines of

a fucking butcher it there's always reasons to leave but are there other

way more reasons better reasons to stay, kind of thing.

And I think that is true, right?

There could always be something where you could go,

you know, I really wish they had that,

I'm gonna go find that in the another person you could

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