Hi to all my new subscribers. My name is Aisha. Very nice to meet you. I want to jump right into this topic, guys, because after yesterday, I saw that I got many, many requests on first date questions. But before we get into that, I want you guys to, of course, follow me on Instagram, which will be right here. and also do not forget to subscribe to this

channel if you have not already and do not forget to click that bell so that you're notified

every single time that I post I know that you guys really like when I do the car you know videos

but I could not film outside today because they've been doing construction work work in my neighborhood all day long and it's super noisy. So even if I sat in my car and closed the door, you guys would still be able to hear it. So we are filming here today. First eight questions. What to ask, how to go about it. We're going to uncover that in this video. Let's get right into it.

So I want to make note of these ground rules. Ground rules meaning identifying what you want. What is

your exact goal when you are dating or going on a date with this guy.

So the reason why it's important to uncover this is because if you walk in with no

expectation in terms of what this guy can bring or a certain standard or protocol, if you

will, of what it is that you would require of this guy,

you're stepping in on the wrong foot. Because when you're dating someone, you have to ask yourself,

what is it that I want? Are you looking for something serious or are you looking to date

just for the experience right now because you are focused on other things like your career and things of that nature?

This is very crucial. Identifying what it is that you want because the person that wants something serious, and of course depending on your age, you may feel like you are on a bit of a

time frame as opposed to someone who's dating just for the experience you have arguably more leeway

to vet guys out and try different techniques if you feel like you need to do so number two you

always want to make sure that a man is a provider,

of course, because that's what they do. You want to make sure that he's not cheap. You want to

make sure he actually has a job. You know how you ask someone what it is that they do? And you,

they answer the question and you still are confused. Like, wait, what? What is it that he actually does you have trouble

articulating it when you talk about it to your friends i don't like that i don't like when i'm

asking someone what is that they do and i get the strangest answer oh i um you know i do this and um

you know back in the day i used to do this, listen to how they're

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