Questions That Lead to Connection with Shana James
The Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
Ashlynn Mitchell, Brannon Patrick, Coby Mitchell
4.8 • 1.2K Ratings
🗓️ 2 June 2020
⏱️ 48 minutes
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Summary
In this episode, Ashlynn and Coby are joined by Shana James to discuss the value of knowing the right kind of questions that lead to connection. They also discuss questions and statements that can lead to understanding, empathy, and bonding.
For 15 years, Shana James has coached more than thousand men and women — leaders, CEOs, authors, speakers, and those with big visions -- to find love, rekindle the spark, create a legacy, become effective and impactful leaders and be personally inspired and fulfilled.
Find out more at https://shanajamescoaching.com/tedx and on her Man Alive podcast.
We are glad you found our season 3 episodes where we share some of our most advanced learnings and bring amazing experts on when it comes to relationships, and the challenges of healing both sides of the relationship after sex addiction and infidelity.
Our journey has taken us a long ways from the time we recorded these episodes, but many have still found help and hope for healing in the information.
We hope you always seek healing first for yourself, and where possible for the relationship, though staying together or choosing divorce or separation can occur at the point of betrayal and at times even after healing from betrayal and addictions.
If you would like support in healing from betrayal we’d invite you to look at our program https://www.beyond-enough.com/beyondbetrayal
It is not a program about staying together or leaving your partner, but rather finding the healing we need as an individual who has been made aware of our partner cheating.
If you would like support from a licensed therapist contact Brannon’s office at www.utahtherapy.org
To find out about Ashlynn’s groups https://www.thisisashlynn.com/mentoring
To get support from Coby check out www.growwithcoby.com
Thanks for your continued support for the podcast throughout all of our journey.
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| 0:00.0 | How can we have questions that create connection? |
| 0:03.6 | We are so glad that you're here because you're choosing to thrive |
| 0:07.4 | after betrayal trauma or addiction. |
| 0:09.6 | Hi, I'm Ashland, the once betrayed. |
| 0:11.5 | I'm Kobe, the once addicted. And I'm'm Brandon the expert. Now why am I an expert? |
| 0:15.4 | Because I've treated betrayal trauma and addiction for over a decade. I want to invite you guys over to our |
| 0:21.0 | premium site where you get in-depth content and access to us. We answer |
| 0:26.6 | questions there for you and you get interaction with like-minded people. To find |
| 0:31.6 | that site go ahead and click details and scroll |
| 0:33.4 | the bottom you'll see the link to our patron site. |
| 0:37.0 | Yeah good to have you we're going to Shannon go ahead and just jump into a |
| 0:40.7 | review real quick. This is really brief. It's really short, but it's just these |
| 0:45.2 | podcasts have helped me so much to see the other side and feel empathy for my spouse. |
| 0:48.9 | It has been a huge struggle, but these podcasts have helped me and thank you for a very kind |
| 0:58.4 | review and that's really I mean that's that's really kind of the idea with this is we don't only want to give |
| 1:05.2 | people hope that change is possible but we also want to really give people |
| 1:12.0 | anecdotal tools, not anecdotal tools. We want people to see the tools that are necessary so that they can see their partner and see the place that they're in. |
| 1:21.0 | Right. And understand what the impact has been for both, for both people. |
| 1:27.0 | So whatever your ending looks like, and that's I think the important part about all of this is we don't give you the answers |
| 1:35.3 | whether you're supposed to stay in your story or move forward and have a different ending than hours. |
| 1:41.5 | It's for you to figure out. |
| 1:42.6 | So as a reminder, we had Shaina before and she is making a huge impact |
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