Hi everybody, welcome to the women's dating and confidence podcast. My name is Amber, and today we're going to be doing a Q&A episode.

Before we get into that, I want to share with you my free guide called copy and paste

texts for when he's pulling away or acting flaky. The link for that is going to be in the show

notes of this episode. Also, if you haven't already, make sure that you get on the wait list for

the next opening of my coaching program called From Dating to Exclusive. This is where I guide you from

casually dating, situationships, and endless dating, to an exclusive relationship that is committed

and not casual. So let's go ahead and dive into some of these questions. I got them from

Instagram. So at first,

I thought that I would get your questions in my DMs when I put the little question thing in my

story. So the first day, I was like, nobody wants to ask any questions, I guess. And I was like,

okay, I guess I'm going to have to think of a different podcast episode to do. But then I realized that it's in the story. I have to actually like

click something there. And there were a lot of questions. So I'm not sure if I'll get through

all of them today, but I do plan on getting through all of them. Some of them were really funny

and some of them were more specifically about dating.

And I haven't prepared anything for it. We're just going to dive in.

So the first one is actually from my ex-boyfriend.

And he said, what are the details of the secret language you use with your BFF?

And what he's referring to is that my best friend, Julia, and I, in high school,

we were taught a way to speak in code, and it sounds like a full-on language. So I'll just do a little

example for you here. Of a guy, wavigil, javagas, divagoo, a go of a gugit, the gags of a camp, the gul,

for the gher, yvigur, yvigur, yvigur, the gear.

That was me saying, I'll just do a little example for you here in this secret language.

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