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The Real Marriage Podcast

Q&A: Tackling Porn Together

The Real Marriage Podcast

Mark Driscoll

Christianity, Religion & Spirituality

4.7919 Ratings

🗓️ 6 September 2021

⏱️ 20 minutes

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Summary

This is the question, "Is it right for me to ask my boyfriend questions about his porn struggles and be his accountability partner?” Porn is one of the biggest issues in marriage but can be difficult to navigate. If one spouse is dealing with porn and is honest about it, where do you go from there? How does the other spouse approach the issue and help? Should you be their accountability partner? It’s also important in marriage to learn how and when to have these conversations. Links/Offers mentioned in this episode: Wired for Intimacy - Book by William H. Struthers XO Now App - 25% off your first month Faithful Counseling - 10% off your first month Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Well, the same thing can happen in our brain.

0:04.0

As we go down a path toward pleasure, it can create a pathway, literally a biological neural

0:10.4

pathway.

0:11.1

Just like you would have a pathway in the woods, you can have a pathway literally in the hardwiring

0:14.9

your brain that takes you to pleasure.

0:18.1

And the result is that your body gets habituated to go down that path faster and faster

0:23.1

and faster, but then like any addiction, eventually, the high wears off. And so you need now

0:30.9

to have more frequency and more intensity. The same is true of drugs, the same is true of alcohol.

0:36.9

All right, welcome to the Real Marriage Podcast.

0:39.0

All right, best friend, let's just be honest.

0:41.2

Let's get real.

0:41.8

How are you feeling today?

0:43.4

I'm a little tired.

0:45.2

That's all?

0:46.0

I'm super tired.

0:47.6

We just got back from a trip.

0:49.7

I was up until midnight all week, had a hard counseling session.

0:53.8

You just taught women's this morning.

0:55.9

Yeah.

0:56.6

You still got five kids.

0:58.3

There's a lot going on.

1:00.1

So here's what we want to tell you guys.

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