Q&A: How to Choose Between Financial Freedom and a First Home

Afford Anything

Paula Pant | Cumulus Podcast Network

Investing, Business, Entrepreneurship

4.6 • 3.4K Ratings

🗓️ 28 October 2025

⏱️ 77 minutes

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#655: What would you do if, at the age of 23, you found yourself with $70,000 a year leftover after expenses? Would you pour everything into retirement and coast to financial independence, or stockpile a down payment before life gets pricier with kids, a mortgage, and maintenance costs? This week, we dive into that real-life dilemma and explore how to strike the perfect balance between freedom now and security later. Along the way, we question whether a 0.40% fee for automated tax-loss harvesting is really worth it, and debate if the rise of mega-corporations means small-cap value investing is dead. Listener Questions in This Episode “Julio” asks: How should we split savings between Coast FI and a future down payment, and where should that down payment sit? (01:48) Lindsay asks: Is 0.40 percent worth it for Fidelity’s tax loss harvesting and how do we unwind back to self managed index funds? (32:31) Greg asks: If a handful of giants dominate, should we ignore history and tilt to only the top companies instead of broad markets and small cap value? (50:51) Key Takeaways The right savings balance may depend less on math and more on clarity about what “home” really means to you Building a down payment might be the fastest way to reach Coast FI, but not for the reason you’d expect Parking cash safely is trickier than it sounds, especially when the market tempts you with higher returns That 0.40 percent fee could be either a silent drag or a smart trade-off, depending on one often-overlooked detail The rise of mega-caps might look unstoppable, yet history has a way of surprising even the biggest players True diversification isn’t about predicting winners, it’s about protecting future you from overconfidence today Chapters Note: Timestamps will vary on individual listening devices based on dynamic advertising segments. The provided timestamps are approximate and may be several minutes off due to changing ad lengths. (00:00) Are we headed for a dystopian future (01:48) A 23-year-old with a $125k income and a big savings gap 08:52) House price, down payment size, and the numbers that drive the split (10:47) The savings snowball case, match protection, and timeline trade-offs (25:14) Where to park the down payment, why cash beats stocks for readiness (32:31) Is 0.40 percent worth it for tax-loss harvesting (36:24) Fees versus claimed tax savings, turnover, and exit options (50:51) Should dystopia change our portfolio (54:36) Small-cap value beyond tech, acquisitions, and global opportunity (1:11:02) Optimism, innovation, and why investing still assumes progress P.S. Got a question? Leave it at https://affordanything.com/voicemail Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0	Joe, do you think we're heading for a dystopian future like the kind that you see in sci-fi movies?
0:05.0	Every day. But I've thought that since I was 12. If you've thought that since you were 12,
0:10.1	when does the future begin? The future is now, Paul. We're living in a dystopian past today.
0:16.8	Present, dystopian present, right? All right. Well, we're going to discuss the implications of that at the end of today's episode.
0:23.4	Before we get to that, we're going to talk to someone who is 23 and makes a household income of $125,000 and only has expenses of $30,000.
0:32.7	Wow.
0:33.1	We're going to talk through what they should be thinking
0:37.7	about. And we're also going to hear from a caller who has some questions about tax loss harvesting.
0:42.8	Well.
0:43.6	There's a lot going on today. So, welcome to the Afford Anything podcast, the show that knows you can afford anything, not everything.
0:50.7	The show covers five pillars, financial psychology, increasing your income, investing,
0:54.8	real estate and entrepreneurship. It's double-eye fire. I'm your host, Paula Pant. I trained in
0:59.2	economic reporting at Columbia and every other episode, ish. I answer questions from you. And I do so
1:05.7	with my buddy, the former financial planner, Joe Sal C-high. What's up, Joe?
1:17.5	Paula, you should just call me ish. Well, I mean, every other episode ish. With my friend,
1:22.9	ish. No, generally every Tuesday. Generally every Tuesday we answer. Generally. Yeah, most Tuesdays.
1:28.7	When we can make it work. When we can fit it in. I would say generally 48 out of the 52 Tuesdays a year.
1:29.4	Yeah.
1:32.5	I would say if this were baseball, it's a hell of a batting average.
1:33.4	We do very well.
1:35.1	Yeah, exactly, exactly.
1:37.0	But I like the ish because it gives us some flexibility.
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