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Q & A: Expert Advice On Love, Dating, And Pandemic Relationships

Consider This from NPR

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🗓️ 12 February 2021

⏱️ 15 minutes

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Summary

We asked for your questions on navigating love and dating during the pandemic. Therapist and sexologist Lexx Brown-James has answers. She's joined by Sam Sanders, host of NPR's news and pop culture show, It's Been A Minute. Listen via Apple or Spotify.

And University of Georgia social scientist Dr. Richard Slatcher shares some findings from his global research project, Love In The Time Of COVID.

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As far as Dr. Richard Slatcher's work goes, there are two types of people in the world.

0:05.0

We really find that there are two groups, relationship halves and have nuts,

0:10.0

and that's really delineated by how their relationships were doing going into the pandemic.

0:16.0

Slatcher teaches in the Department of Psychology at the University of Georgia.

0:21.0

For about a year, he's been running a research project with collaborators around the world

0:25.0

called Love in the Time of COVID.

0:28.0

He's found that people who started the pandemic with a romantic partner

0:32.0

are probably headed in the same direction they were a year ago.

0:36.0

So those couples who were really by and large satisfied with their relationships,

0:43.0

we actually see them becoming more satisfied over the pandemic

0:48.0

because they're able to spend a lot more time together.

0:51.0

Whereas not surprisingly, if your relationship was not great before the pandemic,

0:56.0

odds are it has not improved.

0:58.0

There's nothing so lonely as being stuck for months with someone that you don't feel very connected to.

1:04.0

So that's one group, the relationship halves.

1:07.0

The other group, people who went into the pandemic without a romantic partner.

1:11.0

They're getting their other social needs met primarily through existing close friends or family members.

1:20.0

They were really digging into their existing other kinds of close relationships

1:27.0

more than trying to start new romantic relationships.

1:31.0

The common thread here is that for so many people,

1:34.0

the pandemic has amplified whatever was already going on in their personal life.

1:39.0

And that's been harder on some than others.

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