Q&A: Exclusive Vs. Relationship, Bringing Up Moving In & Getting Engaged, Age Gaps and More
Seeing Other People
Ilana Dunn
4.5 • 608 Ratings
🗓️ 15 September 2022
⏱️ 39 minutes
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Summary
My best friend Sara Curwin and I sit down to answer your questions! We discuss what to do when he invites you to his party but his other hookup is there and they are flirting, how to handle bad manners on a first date, whether or not there's a difference between being exclusive and being in a relationship, how to have conversations about longterm plans with your significant other, age gaps, breaking the ice when you match with someone you kind of know, when to let go of someone who seemed promising but can't commit, and more.
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| 0:00.0 | This podcast is brought to you by Podcast Nation. |
| 0:04.9 | Hey guys, it's Alana and welcome back for another episode of seeing other people. |
| 0:09.7 | I am very excited. I have not done a Q&A in a very long time and they're kind of my favorite |
| 0:15.4 | episodes to do. So I have a very special person here to help me to ask some of your questions and also give |
| 0:22.6 | her advice because she is, you know, even miles ahead of me in terms of her relationship. |
| 0:28.0 | She's getting married in September when this episode is coming out. |
| 0:31.9 | So very, very exciting. |
| 0:33.6 | Everybody welcome my best friend, Sarah Kerwin, to the pod. |
| 0:36.4 | Hi. |
| 0:37.0 | Thanks for having me, Alana, |
| 0:38.3 | and thank you for officiating this wedding that you're talking about in a month. |
| 0:42.9 | Guys, she's crazy. She literally asked me to officiate her wedding. First of all, when she asked |
| 0:48.2 | me this, I had never attended a wedding. And at this point, I've attended two. And what's funny |
| 0:53.0 | is I have had more than one person ask me now. Is Alana going to introduce your wedding by saying, hey, guys, it's Alana. No way. Welcome to the wedding. Wait, that's hilarious. I know. I didn't even think of that. Part of me wants to give you permission, but. It's not about me. Maybe not. It's a little bit about you. It's only entirely about me. It's our day. We're getting married. We're getting married. |
| 1:13.5 | Surprise. |
| 1:11.4 | The boys are just there for fun. It's not about me. Maybe not. It's not about me. It's a little bit about you. Eh, it's only entirely about me. |
| 1:11.9 | It's our day. We're getting married. We're getting married. Surprise. The boys are just there for fun. I just read Kerwin part of the speech. So I'm co-officiating with one of her fiance Sam's best friends. And so we're doing it together. And my co-officient and I have been working on |
| 1:28.4 | the speech and we want the bride and groom's approval and their feedback in edits because we want it |
| 1:33.5 | to be perfect for them. And so I just read her what we drafted and she started hysterically crying. |
| 1:38.8 | Yes, we asked Alana and her co-officiant Gerard to ask everyone to put their phones away, |
| 1:45.9 | which we decided to do because we want all of our guests to be there in the moment. |
| 1:48.5 | And she was not even through saying, please put your phones away without me having significant |
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