I'm the person that I like to pray and plan and journal and prepare.

And so I carry a notebook with me everywhere I go and I kind of think things through and journal things out.

And so what I've told Grace is if there's a big issue we need to talk about, let's have the talk about how to have the talk.

Honey, I'd like to talk to you about this. I want you to think and pray and journal about how we could have that talk,

when we could have that talk, where we could have that talk.

And I want you to know that it's coming,

and I want you to be prayed up and prepared.

And then I want us to open in prayer,

and I want us to share what we've already journaled

and what the Lord's revealed to us.

And it's giving someone an opportunity because what oftentimes happens is

you've been processing it and so you're at a conclusion or a place they've not and so you're

halfway through and they didn't even know what had started my name is mark her name is grace grace

thanks for joining me baby in uh in today's episode of the real marriage

podcast it's under the topic of when your marriage war and and in this we took some

time at a recent marriage conference we were teaching at to do some live Q&A and so

makes a little fun little impromptu a little practical and off the cuff and untuck so that's what

we've got for you today thanks for tuning in and before we get started grace will just read you a quick

review and we'd love it if you leave one wherever you listen to podcast just to encourage others to get

this bible teaching because we're here to help. Another podcaster says this podcast is a big

blessing to my marriage. I love to listen when I am driving and I always leave wiser after listening.

Thank you for this podcast. All right. Thank you, baby, for reading the review. Thanks for joining

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