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Good Moms Bad Choices

Pussy Healing in the Patriarchy

Good Moms Bad Choices

The Black Effect Podcast Network and iHeartPodcasts

Personal Journals, Parenting, Kids & Family, Society & Culture

4.9 β€’ 2.2K Ratings

πŸ—“οΈ 17 June 2026

⏱️ 81 minutes

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Summary

Happy hump day, Tribe! This week, the Good Moms are asking a different kind of question: Are we over-inspired, under-nourished, and done settling for dusty men and outdated rules?

The moms also open up about parents, politics, and generational disconnect... from Fox News grandmas and Spencer Pratt on the ballot to dads who “don’t see color” but listen to Kevin Samuels. They talk about realizing your parents might be emotionally stuck in another era, and how to break those patterns with your own kids.

 

In this episode, you’ll hear:

  • Why so many women are choosing celibacy or simply refusing to settle
  • How patriarchy, whiteness, and slavery shaped the emotional lives of Black men
  • The impact of porn, social media, and constant scrolling on real intimacy
  • Voting chaos, political confusion, and realizing most people never question the rules
  • Parenting preteens, talking about crushes, and not repeating our parents’ mistakes
  • Feeling “over-inspired and under-nourished” by the internet and seeking solitude
  • How to create a self-pleasure ritual that supports orgasm, not just fast release
  • The connection between orgasm, God, trauma release, and real spiritual healing

 

This episode is for women in their “I’m overwhelmed but still evolving” era who are questioning dusty dating norms, unpacking generational bullshit, craving real connection (with themselves, their kids, and their pleasure), and feel over-stimulated by the internet but deeply ready to choose softness, safety, and self-devotion instead.

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Transcript

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0:00.0

This is an I-Heart podcast.

0:02.5

Guaranteed Human.

0:04.5

Once upon a time, there was a good old traditional housewife.

0:08.0

She cooked, she cleaned, cared for her children in the man of the house, and of course,

0:12.5

she didn't talk back.

0:14.1

She was both obedient and soft by nature.

0:16.6

She was a good woman who always made good choices.

0:19.9

I'm like that shit off.

0:21.8

We're good mom's bad choices.

0:23.1

Two single moms who said fuck the patriarchy.

0:25.4

Sheared all their bad choices.

0:26.6

And found out they weren't so bad after all.

0:28.3

We're experts, overshares, and your new bestie.

0:31.0

Sit back and enjoy the ride.

0:33.0

I can do a bad all on my own.

0:36.0

You can't hold me back. I can do fat all on my own And I'm Hope me back

0:38.1

I guess too fat all on my own

0:41.1

There ain't no turning back

0:43.3

Give me my flowers

0:44.8

I'm Erica

0:48.2

And I'm Mila

0:49.8

Happy Hump Day

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