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Welcome to RealTalk Kim's podcast. We hope that you're blessed by the message and for more information, visit RealTalkKim.com.

Hello my incredible podcast family. I am RealTalkKim and I'm so excited today that you have joined me. You can find out all you want to know about me right on my website at RealTalkKim.com.

Yes, go right now. Find out about me. I live in Atlanta, Georgia y'all and I passed her an incredible church right here in Atlanta called Limitless Church.

And it's actually a Fayetteville, Georgia. It's on the south side of Atlanta. And I'm also an author, a three time author, a beautifully broken, beautifully whole.

When your bad meets as good and my fourth book comes out in April, April the seventh and it's called Shut Hell Up.

And so it's going to be great. Can't wait for you to read it. So let's get right into it. So for all of you that don't know me, this podcast is a podcast that's real relevant.

I am a preacher's kid but I was tore up from the floor up and you know, I just wish I would have had somebody like me in my face and get up.

Like truly, you don't cry long enough girl. You don't mean mad long enough. You don't pitch to fit long enough.

And it's just time for you to get up, Kim. And I wish somebody would have done that for me. So that's what this podcast is all about man.

I will get in your face and just tell you man as long as you've got a pulse, God's got a plan and where you are, it's not taking God by surprise.

So today I just want to talk to you about purpose. You know, I want to talk to you about finding your purpose and a lot of times in life, the one thing that I hear a lot is people saying they don't really know what their purpose is.

And then they get stressed thinking about what their purpose is. And so then when you get stressed and all of a sudden you start allowing people to validate who you are.

And before you know it, you're stuck like Chuck because you're over here, you know, waiting for people to support you.

Do people see the good in me? Do the people see that I've changed? Do the people think that I'm validated to write this book or I start this company or if I do it,

well, anybody support me. And before you know it, the enemies got you all trapped by people pleasing. And then you're stuck and you're not walking in your purpose.

And you're not fighting even your purpose because you were trying to place people trying to give people to support you.

And now you're walking in stress. And so, you know, people really only talk behind your back for three main reasons.

You know, one is when they can't reach your level. And two is when they don't have what you have. And three is when they try to copy you and they can't.

And before you know it, you're over here stuck wishing they would have seen something in you. And before we know it, you are stressing out your blood, your thinking, well, maybe I'm not so good at that.

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