I was a youth minister in the mid-80s, and we spent time talking with our youth about

sexuality, and we inadvertently just went too far, and some of it became creating a

picture of, this is what purity is, and if you're not hitting this bull's eye, then there's

something wrong with you.

So listen to the message.

If you live perfectly, if you make this choice and you walk it out, then you will have a

wonderful marriage, all your dreams are going to be fulfilled on the back of that.

I basically told our kids, that's, you know, that's a prosperity gospel.

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What our boys were, I think, 15, 13, and 10.

We heard this epic story, actually, we thought of a friend of ours, whose son was getting

married, and his wedding was going to be his first kiss, and we had all kinds of

questions about it.

Like, wait, what?

The first one's going to be in front of all these people.

But at the other side, we're like, that is the greatest vision ever.

That's what we want for our son.

So remember, we went and shared it with them.

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