previously on in the moment.

I think a little bit of that comes with the toxicness

and the fact that when I was younger,

well, I had older men in my life

who didn't give me the best advice.

One of them telling me that it's your turn.

When you were the woman, it's your turn.

That it's not your woman, that's not your property.

That ain't what you for ever, that's your turn.

And I took that shit to heart.

And I just was never able to look at a relationship

or a woman the same.

And I also had a guy tell me.

Whoever loves the other person more

in a relationship has the least amount of power.

And I wish no one ever told me that stupid shit.

But yes, I've carried that somewhere in the back of my mind

in every relationship I've ever been in.

And I do believe it's been an issue.

So imagine you're in a situation with a woman

who loves you more than you love her.

And the reason why she backs out is because she feels

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