Psychodynamic Self Analysis (2015 Rerun)
Psychology In Seattle Podcast
Kirk Honda
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October 1, 2015
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| 0:00.0 | So I'm sitting there listening intently to my client. I'm a young therapist at the beginning of my career |
| 0:07.3 | and I'm trying really hard to be a good therapist, you know, and I'm loving being a therapist therapist I love helping people and I love seeing |
| 0:15.4 | results and I also love the way each session is like a puzzle or like a maze or |
| 0:21.5 | I don't know a fascinating walk in the woods with someone down a trail a nice pleasant trail |
| 0:30.1 | fraught with all sorts of you you know, twists and turns and with discovery and with |
| 0:37.4 | with love and with pain, but ultimately with growth. |
| 0:43.2 | How about that for a metaphor? |
| 0:45.3 | So I'm listening to my client and I feel like I'm doing really well. |
| 0:48.9 | I'm being in Pathic, I'm attentive, she's telling me about her emotional experience everything is going according to plan and then she says and that's why you're a terrible therapist and then she really lays into me. She's super angry at me. She's not |
| 1:06.8 | happy with me and she knows exactly what to say to hurt my feelings. She's |
| 1:12.2 | insulting me. She's telling me that I'm too young, I'm |
| 1:15.7 | to this, I'm to that. I'm a terrible listener. I haven't listened to her at all. Everything I've |
| 1:21.6 | done up until that point has been wrong, and my breath is taken away, and I start to panic. |
| 1:28.0 | And I'm thinking, what? I'm a terrible therapist. Wait, I thought I was doing a good job she |
| 1:34.0 | accuses me of not knowing what I what I'm doing and if not really listening to her |
| 1:38.7 | and of being a man who could never understand her I'm devastated and I'm terrified and I suspect she's right. |
| 1:46.1 | I'm a terrible therapist. She's right about that. In this episode I will provide a self-analysis of my counter-transference during that moment. |
| 1:56.0 | This is a common succor dynamic practice to self-analyze. |
| 2:01.0 | I will discuss what happened, my emotional reaction reaction what I did in the moment my |
| 2:05.5 | analysis of myself my self analysis my analysis of my client my plan for future |
| 2:10.2 | sessions and the eventual outcome. |
| 2:13.5 | This episode is just for patrons of the podcast. |
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