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Am I the Jerk?

Psycho-Mom hates me BECAUSE I'M A BOY... says she ONLY WANTED to RAISE GIRLS

Am I the Jerk?

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Society & Culture, Relationships

4.82.7K Ratings

🗓️ 16 September 2025

⏱️ 21 minutes

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0:00.0

My entitled mother has hated me ever since I was born, all because I wasn't a girl,

0:04.8

leaving me feeling incredibly alone for most of my life, leaving me feeling very frustrated and very

0:10.0

bitter. And now that I've called her out in front of the entire family, and basically treats

0:14.2

my little sister better than I ever would be treated, I'm now being told that I'm the jerk,

0:18.8

and that I need to be more understanding about my mom's

0:21.4

gender disappointment when it comes to me. Here's what happened. To start things off, my mom never

0:26.2

wanted a boy. She always wanted girls. And apparently her dream was to have four daughters,

0:31.2

but she had me first. I'm a 16-year-old male, and I have seen photos and videos of the day I was

0:36.8

born, and she cried hysterically

0:38.5

when they told her that I was a boy. Then she refused to hold me. After we were cleaned up,

0:43.4

she cried about not using the name that she had chosen and said that she didn't know how to

0:47.9

move on from it. And by the way, all of this was caught on camera. Eventually, my paternal grandmother

0:52.5

took me, and she was the person to hold me

0:54.6

in photos and videos taken during the rest of our hospital stay. Now, my paternal grandmother

0:59.4

was my sole parental figure in the first eight years of my life. She took care of me,

1:04.1

and I spent so much time at her house, and sometimes I was there for weeks. But unfortunately,

1:09.1

she then had a brain bleed, and she passed away. So I was left with my mom but unfortunately she then had a brain bleed and she passed away.

1:11.6

So I was left with my mom who wanted girls and not a boy, and a dad who wanted to be a provider and nothing more.

1:17.6

My mom then had my sister who we will call Lily two years after me.

1:21.6

So my mom got her girl and Lily got all of the attention.

1:24.6

And even though I got my grandmother until I was eight years old,

1:33.4

after that I had nobody. My mom and Lily are super close. And mom adores Lily. She got the bigger bedroom. She gets the gifts and she gets all her favorite snacks. She gets to do all the extracurricular

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