intro let me just intro yo what's up it's your girl dj narc i'm here with carolina say hi hi so we're just

hanging out smoking and we were talking about something we're talking about men and what we think of

men in terms of attraction and providing and gold digging, etc. So Carolina feels very passionate about

this. I'm going to hand it over to her and then yeah, and we're going to talk about it. So welcome.

Go for it. Here I go. So we're talking about how women are attracted to a man that can provide,

that is able to provide, right? So in my opinion, that can go two ways

because you can say that you want a man to provide because you need someone to support you. You're

not able to do it on your own. But the way that I go for it is like, I need a man to provide because

I'm also a provider. And I feel like the two of us providing makes something. You know, unfortunately, many people, and I speak from experience, come across the opposite

where you are a provider and you think that you're marrying someone like you so you don't

take the time out to be like, hey, what are you doing with your money?

Where is this going?

Like, are you putting it somewhere? You know, but you take charge because you're so used to taking charge that you completely neglect that side of it. You're assuming they're an alpha like you're an alpha. Exactly. So for me, I think that it's important to have that. Like, I'm a provider, so I need to find someone that is also a provider that that's my partner, my equal.

Because I don't want to live off him.

As a matter of fact, I would never use your money to buy you a gift.

I will use my money to buy you a gift, you know?

But it's nice to even say that.

Okay, so my point was that I don't think that a man who doesn't have his financial life together should have sex or dating as a priority.

If you don't have your life together, if you don't have money in the bank, if you don't have a great job,

you have no business out here fucking or trying to fuck.

I'm just trying to understand where do you even go with your date?

Because I have a 13-year-old kid.

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