Presupposing The Worst Outcomes With Women

Coach Corey Wayne

Society & Culture, Relationships

4.6 • 532 Ratings

🗓️ 7 February 2025

⏱️ 19 minutes

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Why you should monitor your negative self talk when it comes to dating women.

In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a viewer who seems to presuppose the worst outcomes when it comes to his interactions with women. This communicates a lack of self confidence and is unattractive. He shares his interactions with a woman from his friend group who he asked out, but then she became really unavailable and how he handled trying to set a future date with her. He asks my opinion.

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0:29.6	Hi, I'm Coach Corey Wayne, and this is my video coaching newsletter, and the topic of today's
0:35.6	newsletter is going to be presupposing the worst outcomes
0:39.4	with women. Well, this email is going to be a lot about self-talk and this particular video that
0:46.7	I've got or email that I've got from a guy. He's been following me for about two years and you
0:53.5	could just really kind of see his mindset
0:56.1	and how he comes from the perspective of it's always not going to work out.
1:03.7	In other words, he presupposes the worst outcomes.
1:08.5	And so when we take into account that the number one strength characteristic that women
1:13.5	find attractive in men is confidence and a guy automatically assumes the worst and it's not
1:19.7	going to work out, after enough interactions, texts, the tone of your voice, the things you say,
1:26.9	it's going to come out that you don't think you deserve to be with her.
1:30.9	And it's just a matter of time before you get discovered and then she dips like all of the others.
1:37.1	And I know this because I used to think like that when I was younger and didn't even realize it.
1:42.7	Our self-talk has a tremendous amount of influence on what we say,
1:48.3	what we do, what we believe we're capable of, and the action that we take or fail to take.
1:55.6	So if you think about it from this perspective, this is a good exercise to do. Take a sheet of paper, and then I want you to write down
2:04.1	two, I want you just write down all of the emotions you've experienced in the past week. You can
2:11.1	even pause the video for a second to do that. You can put it, you can do it on your phone,
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