Preferred Pronouns, White Fragility, and Favorite Books - Breakpoint Q&A
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🗓️ 27 April 2022
⏱️ 54 minutes
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Summary
John and Shane are asked how a student should respond to his college requesting him to identify his preferred pronouns. John explains how using one's name is unique from a person's preferred pronoun. He also shares how choosing a pronoun says something distinct about what male and female are.
Along with emphasizing the importance of understanding the issue, John emphasizes the way in which a person engages the issue of pronouns. He encourages the listener to respond with light, not heat.
For another listener's question on the topic of "white fragility," John explains what white fragility is, where it originated, and how it's become a theory of everything. He notes that it isn't helpful to be reactive whenever a conversation on race presents itself, giving some helpful tips to guide conversation to a constructive end.
To close, John and Shane respond to a listener about what young people can do now to prepare for the future. John encourages them to read books, find a mentor, and critique habits.
Resources'
Dr. Meriweather Stand on Pronouns
John Stonestreet and Maria Baer | Breakpoint This Week | 2022
A Rebel's Manifesto: Choosing Truth, Real Justice, and Love amid the Noise of Today's World
Sean McDowell | Tyndale | 2022
Same-Sex Marriage: A Thoughtful Approach to God's Design for Marriage
John Stonestreet and Sean McDowell | Baker | 2014
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White Fragility
Robin DiAngelo | Beacon Press | 2018
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Cultivate
Jeff Myers | Summit
Miracles
C.S. Lewis | Harperone | 2001
The Four Loves
C.S. Lewis | Harperone | 2017
Perelandra
C.S. Lewis | Scribner | 2011
Mere Christianity
C.S. Lewis | Harperone | 2001
The Screwtape Letters
C.S. Lewis | Harperone | 2001
Knowing God
J.I. Packer | Intervarsity | 1993
The Holiness of God
R.C. Sproul | Tyndale | 1998
Dancing with Max
Emily and Charles Colson | Zondervan | 2012
Through the Gates of Splendor
Elisabeth Elliot | Living Books | 1981
The Journals of Jim Elliot, repackaged ed.: Missionary, Martyr, Man of God
Jim and Elisabeth Elliot | Revell | 2020
Confessions
Augustine | Moody | 2007
The Way of the Modern World
Craig Gay | Wm. Eerdmans | 1998
Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to the Breakpoint podcast and our Q&A segment, Ask the Colson Center. |
| 0:04.7 | I'm Shane Morris, host of the upstream podcast and one of the writers for Breakpoint. |
| 0:08.7 | And I'm joined today by John Stone Street, president of the Colson Center and the host of |
| 0:12.9 | of Breakpoint. |
| 0:13.6 | And today we are answering your questions, this time about what to do when your college |
| 0:17.9 | asks for your pronouns, the term white fragility. |
| 0:22.3 | All of these questions were sparked by breakpoint commentaries, short courses, and the |
| 0:26.2 | Colson Fellows program. |
| 0:27.6 | If you've got a question you'd like us to answer here on the program, all you need to do is |
| 0:30.5 | email us. |
| 0:31.3 | The address is ask the Colson Center at colsoncenter.org. |
| 0:36.4 | Well, John, that first one probably caught your ear. It caught my eye as I read |
| 0:39.9 | the questions. And it's about this question of what do you do as a student when you're applying to |
| 0:45.3 | colleges and they ask for your pronouns. This is going to be one of those practices that becomes |
| 0:51.2 | increasingly common. And it's something that I never thought about or anticipated |
| 0:54.6 | being an issue. It's not an issue in my life, but it could potentially be an issue in my kids' lives. |
| 1:00.9 | And it's something that we very much need to think about. This is just one little facet of an |
| 1:04.8 | emerging reality of living in this post-sexual revolution world, this post-Christian culture, in which different assumptions |
| 1:13.6 | reigns supreme. So this person asks, how would you advise college-age young people that are going |
| 1:19.4 | to college and will be asked to designate their pronouns? To even list one's obvious pronouns |
| 1:25.5 | is to play into the game that any other pronoun is possible. |
| 1:30.1 | Our local college is now asking for these at the beginning of every new class. |
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