Hello, and welcome to the bachelor podcast. I'm Kay York City and I am Jared Fried. It is so going to be back here with you

Kay. Before we get started, we have a very big announcement. We are going to be recapping. Love is blind. Season four, if you are

subscribed, it will be right on your feed and if you have a friend that watches love is blind and wants to be a part of

a recap of the whole season, let them know. It's coming this week. I'm excited for love is blind. I've been watching each season. I remember watching the first season and being

so taken aback by the show and how crazy this sort of concept is, but I'm excited for it. Are you a love is blind watcher? I watched the first season and you know, we're watching the season four and it is

a very different show than the bachelor, but just as juicy, just as like cringy and so many things to like go over and how they relate to our own

relationships and also to let people know we were sent screeners. So this season four is wild and fun and a great watch. So if you're out there and

watch love is blind, join us this week. If you have friends that watch love is blind, they don't watch the bachelor. Let them know about this podcast. Let them know we'll be recapping in the same way we do this show and they'll love it as much as you love this show. So

okay, fantasy sweet week. We did it. We've made it. What are we failing? Sex week is that called it.

Man, I have so many different emotions. I don't know about you, but something like last night's episode had me in for a loop. Like I was all over the place.

So much to go over. You know, it's it's like I let me I have a lot of emotions too. Yeah, I have a lot of thoughts and it's a little bit all over the

place because I don't envy Zack's position. Like I think we have to acknowledge or I acknowledge maybe it's okay to disagree. I mean just the

difficulty of being a guy, a straight dude, who people generally just don't like or aren't cheering for already who is now who only cares

seeming who seemingly only cares about being liked by everybody. Audience and people on the show to then go and be told go enjoy an intimate night with three

different women who you might marry. Like I don't like there was he obviously fumbled the ball. Like he he didn't nail it by any means, but

yes, it did. I mean, he got in his own head. He like legitimately rattled himself. Don't you think? Yeah, I mean, he said himself, he really set himself up for failure with coming into this with a sort of game plan.

He's talked about it before. He was like, I sort of thought this out and tried to do this season in a way that would keep all the mess out that would keep

all like the drama out like getting rid of the second there's drama. You're going home the second there's that you're going home like no sex during set during

sex week. Well, now I'm calling it sex week. I can't. But he's he tried to come up with this equation to make it happen and it really bit him in the

ass. Right. And when you go to Sean Lowe for advice, like I think it's like, well, it's more important than we make fun of it, but that's an

important piece of information. You're going to a guy who's you who you literally just met this year. We know that has three kids is a born

again, very religious guy. I don't care that you're very religious, but that tells me how you look at sex as this different thing than

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