Post-Separation Abuse and Coercive Control - Narcissist Apocalypse Q&A

Narcissist Apocalypse: Patterns of Abuse

Abuse Survivor Network

Society & Culture, True Crime, Self-improvement, Relationships, Education

4.7 • 791 Ratings

🗓️ 30 June 2023

⏱️ 37 minutes

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Summary

For many abuse survivors, leaving an abusive relationship doesn't stop the abuse. That's the haunting reality of post-separation abuse and coercive control, which we are exploring in this episode. We expose the many ways abusers continue to exercise control post-separation, from subtle gaslighting tactics to more blatant ways like legal abuse, smear campaigns, stalking, harassment, and weaponizing children. In the second segment of our discussion, we discuss how legal proceedings are manipulated to intimidate and control. Moreover, we shed light on the financial implications of post-separation abuse, illustrating how access to bank accounts, credit cards, and child support payments can be manipulated to maintain control. If you want to be a guest on our survivor story podcast, please click here or send us an email at narcissistapocalypse@gmail.com To listen to the groundbreaking investigative true crime podcast about Munchausen by Proxy, NOBODY SHOULD BELIEVE ME, click here. Thank you to our sponsor BETTERHELP. If you need online counseling from anywhere in the world, please do go to https://www.betterhelp.com/nap Get started today and enjoy 10% off your first month. If you or someone you know are experiencing abuse, you are not alone. DomesticShelters.org offers an extensive library of articles and resources that can help you make sense of what you're experiencing, connect you with local resources and find ways to heal and move forward. Visit www.domesticshelters.org to access this free resource. If you need help moving due to domestic violence, Shelter Movers may be able to help you. They operate by referral. Clients may be referred by any person of authority (social worker, doctor, police, crisis counselor, teacher, etc.) or public agency (shelter, hospital, school, workplace, place of worship, sexual assault centre, etc.). To reach them, click here. Join our new Community Social Network at https://community.narcissistapocalypse.com/ Join our Instagram Channel at https://www.instagram.com/narcissistapocalypse Join our Youtube Channel at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpTIgjTqVJa4caNWMIAJllA

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0:00.0	On this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse Q&A, everyone.
0:35.3	I am Brandon Chadwick, and today we are going to be talking about post-separation
0:42.3	abuse, course of control, and the Duluth model, the post-separation abuse power and control
0:51.2	wheel. And before we get into that, if you want to be a guest on our
0:56.8	Survivor Story episodes, please do go to our website at Narcissistapocalypse.com. Top of the page,
1:02.6	there's a button that says guest form. When you click on that button, it takes you to our
1:05.7	guest form page. There, you can read all of our instructions and either send us an email at Narcissistapocalypse
1:11.9	at gmail.com or fill out our guest form and press the submit button, and please do send it
1:16.9	in the format that we ask for.
1:19.2	And a content warning for this episode, as we do discuss physical abuse and sexual
1:25.8	abuse as well as sexual coercion.
1:28.6	So a content warning there.
1:31.7	And when it comes to doing this post-separation abuse episode, in the last couple of weeks,
1:39.3	there have been some people that I have talked to that post-separation abuse has really been a big, big, big
1:47.2	issue.
1:48.5	And I thought it was time to maybe talk about post-separation abuse again and going over the
1:56.5	Duluth model of post-separation abuse in their power and control wheel for post-separation
2:03.4	abuse in coercive control because that's what we are really dealing with here.
2:08.3	So I guess I just wanted to really discuss what happens when a domestic violence relationship
2:13.4	ends, a relationship that has domestic violence and it ends.
2:17.7	And for many people, once that relationship ends, the abuse just isn't over.
2:23.7	And it transitions to a new form of coercive control, which many people refer to as post-separation
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