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🗓️ 24 September 2025
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There has been a renewed conversation regarding sex after childbirth following a recent episode of the CBeebies Parenting Helpline podcast which tackled the topic of libido in the time after having a baby. It can be a very confusing time when it comes to your relationship with your body, so how do you navigate those ‘blurred lines’ between your roles as mother, partner, and sexual being. Nuala McGovern is joined by journalist and author Nell Frizzell, who's written about her own experiences, and consultant obstetrician and gynaecologist, Dr Karen Joash.
Ruby Tui was the star of the last Women's Rugby World Cup, held in her native New Zealand in 2021. She's now regarded by many to be the star of the BBC's coverage of this year's World Cup, held in England. The tournament has broken records, from viewership to ticket sales and reflects the rapidly rising profile of the women’s game. Ruby Tui reflects on the tournament and her own journey to the top of the sport.
A form of family violence which receives minimal attention and is arguably the most hidden form of abuse within the home is known as CAPVA. This stands for child and adolescent to parent violence and abuse. Today the charity Action for Children has released a report with insights from their parenting support services, which suggests there has been a marked uptake in need for support on this issue. Nuala hears from Martha Hampson, Senior Policy Advisor on Early Help with Action for Children, and Dr Nikki Rutter, assistant professor in the department of sociology at Durham University and child parent violence researcher.
Award-winning actor Juliet Stevenson takes the lead in a new play at the National Theatre, The Land of the Living. She plays Ruth, a UN relief worker in post-war Germany, trying to reunite children stolen by the Nazis from Eastern Europe, with their families. With one particular child it becomes a very personal mission. Juliet tells Nuala why she wanted to play this part.
Presenter: Nuala McGovern Producer: Kirsty Starkey
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| 0:42.8 | Now, if you watch the women's rugby World Cup, that's ongoing at the moment, you cannot |
| 0:48.4 | miss Ruby Toey. |
| 0:50.1 | The New Zealand rugby legend has been just as magnetic commentating on the game |
| 0:55.0 | as she has previously been as a player on the pitch. |
| 0:58.1 | I'm very much looking forward to speaking to her right here in the Woman's Hour studio. |
| 1:02.3 | Also today, if you have given birth and you're ready to share this morning, |
| 1:07.0 | I'd like to hear about the following, sex after childbirth. |
| 1:10.8 | Some may be ready soon after to begin again, but others face trauma, pain or disinterest in sex for months or even years. |
| 1:19.3 | And I'm wondering what it was like for you. Is there anything that you learned from your personal experience that you think might be useful for your fellow listeners who are postpartum |
| 1:27.7 | and do not want to have sex with their partner. Well, you can text the program. The number's |
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