Hello and welcome to this special edition of Keep It Positive Sweeties.

Today is a special episode because you, my listeners, have written into me and asked me

for advice.

We always do positive outcomes where I read a letter from you all that you write in and

I give you my advice and so does my guess.

So today I'm taking some time out for just me and you to listen what you have to say

and give you the best advice that I can, all right?

So let's get into it.

Good morning Crystal, first I want to say thank you.

I love to watch your show and you are so inspiring and honest.

Thank you for being who you are authentically.

I am on a quest to get back my femininity, but as a 52 year old woman I'm not sure what

that means, is it the way a woman dresses, speaks, smells, moves, acts, and can you lose

it?

And if so, how do you get it back?

As a single divorced mother of three adult children, I am in search to recreate myself.

I have been hard for so long that I don't know anything else, but I know that's my

how God made me.

As I am typing this, my eyes are filling with tears.

I had to be hard in order to raise three children, two males and one daughter on the south side

of Chicago, keeping them out of gangs, not selling drugs or becoming baby daddies or

baby mamas.

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