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Hello, everyone.

I'm Amy Robo.

And I'm T.J.

I just said you start this one, and that's what you start with. I thought you had a big laid-out intro. Just letting me know who they're hearing. Okay. I'm T.J. Holmes. Now I got to keep going? No, I can continue. Now, we are two of your hosts on I-do Part 2. Hopefully, maybe you know us from our other podcast, Amy and T.J. And maybe you're listening to our daily podcast, The Morning Run. Yes, we got a lot. But this one's been fun, and this is, this might be the one where we have the most experience in talking about. This is the one we're experts in, but I do part too. It's been a fun podcast. We've been a part of helping people find love if they didn't get it right the first or second or even third time around. That's what we're here for, but we're going to have a little fun in this one. Yes, that's right. We're going to ask each other some questions, and hopefully you all can ask yourselves these questions, maybe your significant other or the person you're dating. This is just a fun kind of pop quiz where it gets people thinking about what you like, what you don't. So I'll start. Okay, and we have these in front of us, but we purposely did not look through the questions ahead of time, so we actually don't know what's coming. So go right ahead. These are from the producers of I do part two, so let's just take a great blind stab at this. If a woman is dating someone who only texts her late at night to hang out, but she's wanting a relationship, what should she say or do to get her point across without scaring the guy off?

Nothing. You do not need to – I say this to my female friends all the time.

Do not cater to someone who is showing you what he thinks about you in the time he wants to spend. It's not that difficult. A guy is texting you late at night. You're not getting what you want. Be willing to walk. Scare him off. Bye. You're the one that should be scared off. You should be scared by his behavior so i i'm not a big

fan certainly when it comes to adults you've heard me say this to female friends you're a grown

ass woman grown you ain't got time your biological clock is ticking according to you so why are you

wasting time with someone who is clearly showing you what he thinks about you in this relationship.

Yes. So this might be an extreme thing, but my mom always told me this. She said,

if a man wants to be with you, he will walk across water to be with you. If a man is only calling

you at 11 p.m. or at 2 a.m. for, yes, a booty call, that's what he thinks of you, and that's what he wants from you. And you're not going to change his mind. So I don't think, I think sometimes us women think we can change a guy or we can get him to like us or we can play enough games. How does it work out? It doesn't work out because I just, you, you know, deep down, you know when you're getting these late night phone calls, you're not getting the attention that you deserve in a relationship, in a real relationship with all of the things you're hoping for, including a lifelong partner. That's not what a lifelong partner does. And so sometimes it's just about being honest with yourself. I don't think you can change, manipulate, or control that situation. You have to accept it. You're an adult. Ask one time, say, I noticed you've only texted me late in night. You can ask why. What are you expecting? How would you like to move? Ask it one time. It's okay. But you already know the answer. You do. If you have to ask it. I agree with you. But if you want to give it the shot but you already know the answer you do if you have to ask it i agree with you

but if you want to give it the shot that you want at least ask so you'll know and move it's okay

to move on i say this oftentimes about guys we i'm not going to say that okay let me go to me actually

that wasn't now you peeked my interest interest. You've heard me say it before.

Okay.

All right.

Next up here, Robes, when you're dating someone new, when should you have the What Are We

Conversation?

When do guys know they want to make someone their girlfriend?

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