Poncho & The Physically Abusive Spendthrift - Domestic Violence, IPV, Narcissist Abuse, Emotional Abuse, Child Sex Abuse

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🗓️ 7 February 2022

⏱️ 85 minutes

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Brandon talks with Poncho about her physically abusive relationship with an impulsive spendthrift. It's a story of child sex abuse, caretaking, thinking you're the problem, and infidelity. Plus they discuss, ex wives, rage, gaslighting, death, trauma bonding, narcissistic mothers, neglect, healing, and much more. *** Trigger Warning - This episode discusses graphic discussion of child sex abuse and intimate partner violence. The child sex abuse is mentioned when Poncho is describing her upbringing in the first 12 minutes of the show.*** Thank you to our sponsor BOMBAS. Go to Bombas.com/nap and get 20% off your purchase of socks, underwear, and t-shirts. Bombas donates an item to a homeless shelter for every item purchased. They are a wonderful company. We love Bombas. Thank you to our sponsor HELLOFRESH. Go to HelloFresh.com/nap16 and use code nap16 for up to 16 free meals AND 3 free gifts! Enjoy America’s #1 Meal Kit today! Thank you to our sponsor BETTERHELP. If you need online counseling from anywhere in the world, please do go to https://www.betterhelp.com/nap Get started today and enjoy 10% off your first month. If you or someone you know are experiencing abuse, you are not alone. DomesticShelters.org offers an extensive library of articles and resources that can help you make sense of what you're experiencing, connect you with local resources and find ways to heal and move forward. Visit www.domesticshelters.org to access this free resource. Join our new Community Social Network at https://community.narcissistapocalypse.com/ Join our Instagram Channel at https://www.instagram.com/narcissistapocalypse Join our Youtube Channel at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpTIgjTqVJa4caNWMIAJllA Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:30.6	On this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, we talk with an abuse survivor named Poncho, and Poncho was in a physically abusive relationship with an impulsive spendthrift.
0:42.9	It's a story of childhood sex abuse, caretaking, thinking you're the problem, and infidelity.
0:50.1	Music Welcome to
1:03.0	Welcome to Narcissist Apocalypse, everyone with me today.
1:14.3	We have Poncho.
1:16.6	How are you?
1:18.6	You know, I'm doing really good.
1:20.3	I am a little anxious and also excited to finally tell my story and hope that maybe someone else can hear my words and
1:32.9	know what I went through and find similarities so that they will not stay in such a bad
1:39.6	situation. Well, thank you for being here, Poncho, and you went through a lot. You went through emotional
1:47.7	abuse, you went through physical abuse, and you went through financial abuse as well. And your
1:54.7	story is a little bit different in a way, because you were in contact with the person before you and you're in
2:04.3	contact with the person after you. And one of those people in in this story is needed your help.
2:14.3	And then the other person, we can kind of say right now that they were the opposite of
2:22.1	what you needed and could possibly be still trauma bonded to that person in a way and even
2:32.1	though that they went through something similar to you,
2:35.3	they were still doing the bidding of them in a way and really didn't have a concern for you at
2:43.4	all, whereas you and most do. So, you know, thank you for being here because you're going to really help a lot of people.
2:54.6	So now, without further ado, Poncho, the floor is now yours.
3:03.2	Yes, well, you know, I think back of, you know, all ways I get to where I'm at today.
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