Matt's mom here. We are here for Thanksgiving, and I want to take just a minute to thank you so much for supporting Matt and his family. We appreciate what he does, and I know you do too. And thanks. Philemen, yeah, philemen, yeah.

Hey, everybody, it's Matt.

This is the 10-minute Bible Hour podcast.

And have you ever had a really legitimate falling out with someone?

I don't mean a little misunderstanding or things turned a little gossipy and you sort of drifted

apart. I mean a straight up scorched earth, not Cold War, hot war fight, where you argued with somebody,

you did things to each other to try to advance your cause and hurt the other person. And there was

real damage done and maybe it happened in hurt the other person. And there was real damage done.

And maybe it happened in front of other people. So your social circle was aware. You ever had

one like that? Okay. If you have or if you've had more than one, I guess my follow-up question is,

have you ever had one of those where time passed and then one party or the other reached back out maybe even showed up at the

door i've had that happen that's a crazy thing because you know you hear a knock on the door you're

sitting at home and then you're like oh well who could that be and in your brain there's been this one

person that you've been fixating on for months and

months because of this outstanding hurt or whatever. And you walk to the door and you open the door,

and it is that person. What does your gut do? What does your heart do? I mean, you get blasted

with adrenaline in that moment, right? There's no question as to what the person at the door is there to talk about

when this happens. What else is there to talk about other than the incident, the state of your

relationship, what happened? It's on. This might be pleasant. This might be healing. This might be

horrible. But immediately, you go to an 11 in terms of being amped up and ready to go. Flip it around. Imagine you're on the other side and you've been stewing on this other person for all this time. If you see their vehicle in a parking lot or something, you're like, oh, I'm out of here. I'm not risking that. You're nervous at the supermarket, but it's eating at you.

And finally you're like, I just got to do something about it. And it has to be today. And so you drive

over there. And in the past, every time you went and visited this person's house, it was like going

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