Please don’t ask if you’re worthy.

WITH LOVE, DANIELLE

Danielle LaPorte

Self-improvement, Education

4.9 • 697 Ratings

🗓️ 14 September 2023

⏱️ 32 minutes

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Summary

We don’t actually need a pep talk about our worthiness.

Because…We’re all “worthy.” And the “worthiness” questioning is, actually, absurd.

No one needs to quantify, or qualify themselves for Love. Not one Soul, ever.

We don’t have to establish if we’re deserving of more ease, happiness, or Loving Kindness.

Here it is: when we spend energy questioning and bidding to see if we’re valued or worthy…it distracts us from healing.

All that asking and validation seeking, actually creates MORE confusion and perceived woundedness inside of us.

Imagine you’re a billionaire - and you kept asking everyone around you. Or, a god of your understanding: “am I rich?”, “am I rich?”- it just creates more:

Confusion, agitation, perpetuates more striving…

It’s Episode #83 of WITH LOVE, DANIELLE! Let’s get in there:

What happens when we become more blind to our inherent, DIVINE WORTH? (We spin.)
Why do we believe we need to earn our worth? And,
When we find ourselves asking ourselves or others (typically unconsciously) if we’re worthy or valuable, instead, let’s wonder, “Why did I ask that?” It’s a popcorn trail to your pain and power.
Here’s a life shifting question to apply, DAILY: What does my unhealed self need right now? (aka, your Inner Child)

This episode includes a short visualization exercise that I guide and it’s simple enough to remember that you can take it with you. I also did a printable LOVE NOTE for you to save.

We have been in this worthy/unworthy dialogue for eons, it is part of the human dance––so we have some stuff to unpack.

LISTEN HERE or wherever you like to tune in to the pods.

WITH LOVE,

Danielle

In this episode I give a journaling/thought prompt. You can find it and other saveables in my LOVE NOTES section!

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0:00.0	If you are interested in the life-changing power of self-compassion, if you are curious about shadow work,
0:11.1	if you want to be more receptive to higher guidance, well, hello, I am Danielle Laporte, and this is
0:18.6	with love, Danielle.
0:23.9	Hello, my loves. Today we're going to talk about worthiness and how silly really it is to even
0:33.4	question our worthiness. I want to talk about the agitation that is sort of a sidecar to
0:44.4	querying, to asking other people to validate our worth for us, because it never works out.
0:52.1	And what I really want to say,
0:57.1	108 times over and over again,
0:59.3	is that you are worthy.
1:02.2	Some days I need to tell myself that.
1:05.6	But here's the truth, as in the true reality.
1:14.3	We don't actually need a pep talk about our worthiness because I know you think you need a pep talk,
1:18.3	but just hear me out on this one because here we are with love Danielle.
1:31.3	Those kind of peps and motivationals actually bring our vibration down, down to the lowest common denominator. We do not need to quantify or qualify ourselves for love or for nourishment. We don't have to establish if we are
1:40.5	deserving of more ease or happiness or reciprocity. So I want you to wrap your mind
1:50.2	around these really big concepts about your identity, your true identity. Sp of the infinite, flames in the fire of creation.
2:07.8	I'm talking about you. I'll lean on some Ram Dass here. Spiritual beings having a human experience.
2:15.4	Spiritual beings having a human experience, spiritual beings, having a human experience.
2:19.3	So in light of our light, capital light, asking if you're worthy, asking if you're worthy of anything, is not only kind of absurd, it's actually a distraction.
2:37.9	It brings you down, gets you off of your path.
2:42.1	More specifically, questioning your worth actually has us perpetuate a lie.
2:52.2	You are the beloved.
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