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Modern Love

Platonic, Until Death Do Us Part | With John Cameron Mitchell

Modern Love

The New York Times

Storytelling, Nytimes, Nyt, Redemption, New York Times, Society & Culture, Loss, Essay, Love

4.39K Ratings

🗓️ 19 June 2019

⏱️ 21 minutes

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Summary

What do you do when you're struggling to find a romantic relationship as deep as the relationship you have with your best friend? John Cameron Mitchell ("Anthem: Homunculus") reads Ephi Stempler's essay about a man considering a platonic life partnership.

Transcript

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Modern Love The Podcast is supported by...

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Produced by the Island at WBUR Boston.

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From The New York Times and WBUR Boston, this is Modern Love.

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The New York Times and WBUR Boston.

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Stories of love, loss and redemption.

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I'm your host, Megna Chacrabardi.

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Last week, our team brought a live performance of the Modern Love Podcast to the Provincetown Film Festival in Provincetown, Massachusetts.

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John Cameron Mitchell joined us for the performance.

0:53.0

He created, directed and starred in, Headwig and the Angry Inge.

0:57.0

His new musical podcast is called Anthem Homunculus.

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Here he is, reading Effie Stempler's essay, Plotonic, Until Death to Us Part.

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Recently, I stumbled across an article about Stephen Dahlgrey.

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The man behind the hours and Billy Elliott, who's openly gay, and married his longtime friend,

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a woman and a director in her own right, named Lucy Sexton.

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Now, Stephen now 55 married Lucy at 41 because he wanted to have and raise a child and have health insurance.

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According to him, the relationship is not and never was romantic.

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It's a marriage rooted in practicality.

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How fiddler on the roof, I thought.

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And my next thought, how sad.

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Another gay man who can't fully accept himself.

1:58.0

I recall the Hollywood films I've seen about these men and their surrogate partners and how in the end the guy gets the guy,

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the girl learns her lesson, and the credits roll to some terrible Motown remake.

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