Summary
No offence but... women are too much drama. No but seriously, we're living in a time of 'pick me' inception. Pick me's are calling other women pick me's, in response those women become pick me's and call the pick me's pick me's, and now nobody can decipher who the real pick me is. Hannah and Maia try and get to the bottom of this conundrum. Has the 'pick me' always been around or did early 2000s chick flicks do such a number on us that now we have no choice but to clap back? Or maybe this is just a case of good ole' psychological oppression.
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SOURCES:
Sandra Lee Bartky, “On Psychological Oppression” Femininity and Domination (1990).
Bearman et al. “The Fabric of Internalized Sexism” Journal of Integrated Social Sciences vol. 1 (1) (2009).
Sarah Eckert, “There's a Big Issue Surrounding Those #PickMeGirl TikToks & We Need to Talk About It.” Her Campus (2021).
https://www.hercampus.com/culture/tiktok-pick-me-girl-trend-toxic/
Courtney Young, Why TikTok Is Flooded With Controversial Videos About "Pick Me Girls" Bustle (2022).
https://www.bustle.com/life/what-is-a-pick-me-girl-definition-traits
Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | What's you drinking? I'm drinking a large black coffee. Damn, that's hard. Yeah, I'm very different. |
| 0:08.1 | I read. Other girls, they buy their frippy, frappy, flappy whatever's from Starbucks. Me, |
| 0:13.7 | I drink black coffee. Yeah, they like their skinny, half shot, soy chino with caramel drizzle on top because they can't take a real coffee like |
| 0:24.1 | that carry underwood song she's like probably buying her some fruity little drink because she can't shoot |
| 0:30.1 | a whiskey oh yeah carry i love that song i'm drinking a peppermint tea. So you're a grandma. It soothes my stomach. |
| 0:40.7 | Aw. And it also is non-caffeinated. A famous thing about my years, she can't do caffeine. |
| 0:47.7 | Something fucked up about me also is that I do love fruity drinks, but not just fruity. Like, |
| 0:51.8 | when I get cocktails, I like them kind of like creamy. |
| 1:10.9 | We went to a cocktail bar where they make a drink for you on the spot. Like, you tell them what you like, and then they like make a fun drink. Mya was like, I want something creamy. And they were like, oh. They said, what does that mean? Like, do you want something with coconut cream in it? And I was like, for sure. |
| 1:13.3 | And then they were like, or do you want something with heavy cream? |
| 1:27.9 | And I was like, for sure. And then they were like, or do you want something with heavy cream? And I was like heavy cream. And they actually looked like repulsed putting it on the table. And it was very good. I just feel like cocktails are like kind of like a dessert for me. Oh, yeah. No, I like that. I asked for something with grapefruit and I got something with grapefruit and i was very happy what's your go-to cocktail my go-to cocktail i don't know |
| 1:34.5 | i love um a french 77 i think is what they're called it's like gin and champagne and like lemon |
| 1:41.0 | that's nice yeah it's yours i like to say like a pisco sour probably or like a amaretto sour |
| 1:46.8 | i feel like i just again like i kind of like them frothy but they're not that creamy yeah sour |
| 1:51.4 | it's funny because we're using new mics today yeah and yeah when i went to rent them because we are |
| 1:57.9 | broke ass and we rent our equipment. Yeah, so broke ass. |
| 2:03.1 | Well, just a broke ass mindset. |
| 2:05.3 | But I mainly do it because I like the experience of going and renting from the place that we rent at. |
| 2:11.0 | It's just a nice good time. |
| 2:12.5 | Yeah. |
| 2:12.9 | They're very friendly. |
| 2:14.0 | But when I went, I was getting the mics and they didn't have the ones we usually get. And then it was like this whole process. I was there for like 45 minutes. And then when they were giving me the mics, they were like, so what do you what do you get the mics for? And I was like, oh, like a podcast. And they were like, oh, so what's your podcast about? And I was like, um, it's about social media. And all of them just looked at me with this, |
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