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Focus on the Family Equipping Parents Podcast

Phones vs. Real Relationships

Focus on the Family Equipping Parents Podcast

Focus on the Family

Kids & Family, Parenting

4.41K Ratings

🗓️ 25 September 2025

⏱️ 14 minutes

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Summary

When you're getting constant notifications on your phone, how do you take time to look at real people? Jim Daly and Arlene Pellicane address how many young people feel lonely. Plus, John and Danny share why one of the best ways to get your kids off a screen is to encourage them to serve others.

 

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0:00.0

God is at work and he's calling his people to rise in truth. Truth Rising is a powerful new documentary from Focus on the Family and the Colson Center. See how ordinary Christians choose courage in a culture that needs truth. Watch Truth Rising today and find out how you can become an agent of restoration and hope.

0:24.1

Visit truthrising.com today.

0:26.9

That's truthrising.com.

0:32.6

I think we all know it, and we've said it here on this show before, that phones are addictive

0:37.9

because that's what they're supposed to be. They've been, you know, hijacked, basically.

0:44.6

Technology is there, and it's been used, and we just rely on constant notifications. We rely on

0:50.6

that little ping that we get, the vibration on your wrist if it's connected to a watch.

0:56.2

But, you know, when you're on the phone too long, you're just not looking at people.

1:00.4

You're not looking at things the way you need to be in a healthy world.

1:04.4

I'm John Fuller, along with Dr. Danny Werta, who leads our parenting team.

1:08.2

And we're going to hear now from Focus on the Family with Jim Daly,

1:11.5

a little clip in which Jim Daly spoke with Arlene Pelican about why it's critical to be intentional

1:17.3

to replace screen time with real relationships.

1:22.5

And in that context, again, that 13-year-old girl,

1:25.3

I'm thinking about that loneliness trap.

1:27.1

The irony is as parents, I think we see them connected, chatting with friends, posting,

1:32.3

cute pictures.

1:34.3

You rationalize as the parent, oh, that's good, they have friends.

1:38.3

But again, the inverse is what's happening.

1:40.3

The loneliness index is going up for those kids. Explain if researchers

1:45.9

are finding out why. How could they be so highly connected and so lonely and increasingly

1:52.0

lonely in that kind of context? Yeah, they did a research thing of 33,000 students in college.

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