Phil Waldrep on betrayal, forgiveness, and true healing.

The Alli Worthington Show

Alli Worthington

Health & Fitness, Self-improvement, Education, Society & Culture

4.8 • 634 Ratings

🗓️ 10 February 2020

⏱️ 69 minutes

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Summary

I'm with my wonderful friend Phil Waldrep, founder of The Women of Joy and Gridiron Conferences. Phil shares his personal story of processing through a deep betrayal and what God has taught him over decades about bitterness and forgiveness. Phil is like your favorite, wise uncle who can gently teach us and encourage us at the same time--and I know this conversation is going to leave us forever better. In this episode we discuss: 1. How to heal from betrayal. 2. How to tell if bitterness is an issue for you. 3. And why his dog is suspicious of him. Favorite quotes: 1. You may be in the pit right now, but when you overcome feelings of betrayal in a healthy way, your pit can become a palace. 2. Betrayal is like building a wall around your heart. People that have been betrayed, build this wall around their hearts and they decide ‘no one else will hurt me because no one else is getting in.’ 3. You can trust again. You can have joy again. You can have peace again, but you have to process that betrayal that you’ve been feeling. 4. At the root of betrayal is selfishness. That’s the reason why people betray you. They put their desires ahead of your desires. In this episode I answer these questions: 1. How can I learn to stop yelling at my kids all the time? (41:26) 2. How do I fully lean in and trust God? (52:52) 3. How do you stop fear and doubt when you want to open your own business as a woman? (58:38) Links to great things we discussed: 1. Phil Waldrep 2. Beyond Betrayal 3. Women of Joy 4. Elvis: American Trilogy 5. Andre Rieu 6. A Beautiful Day in the Neighborhood 7. American Gospel 8. Traeger Grill xo, Alli www.alliworthington.com/podcast/philwaldrep

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0:00.0	Hey, hey, this is Allie and welcome to the Allie Worthington show.
0:06.7	It's where we gather, learn, share our stories and have a great time.
0:10.8	Every week I'll be chatting with a friend who I know, who I like and I respect,
0:15.4	and I want to learn something from.
0:17.3	And after we have that discussion, we are going to have coaching time.
0:20.3	So I'm going to be
0:20.8	answering your questions about life, about faith, and about business. Welcome to the show. I'm with
0:28.6	the wonderful Phil Waldrop. He is the founder of the Women of Joy conferences, and I've had the
0:33.4	best time over the last couple of years getting to know him and his wife Debbie. It's a funny story.
0:38.9	His daughter, Megan, and I are really good friends, and that's how I got to know Phil and Debbie.
0:43.7	And they are just wonderful, wonderful people. You know the kind of people you have lunch with and you think,
0:49.6	I need you in my life forever. You guys are brilliant. Well, Phil's that way. And Phil is like your
0:56.5	your wise, funny uncle who when you see him, like at a family reunion, you sit and talk to him
1:03.2	and you walk away from each conversation about 10 times smarter, that's Phil. And I asked him to
1:08.8	join us on the show this week because he has a lot to teach us
1:12.8	about a topic that we don't talk about often. We pretend it doesn't happen to us. When it happens,
1:19.0	we put it aside. But it's an important topic because one of my goals of the show is, you know,
1:23.5	I want to learn something I don't know yet but I feel like my calling in this season
1:30.5	is to help women learn to live life well to help us be honest about our challenges and how to
1:37.1	overcome them and mental health is really important to me and what we're talking about today
1:41.6	we're talking about betrayal betrayal israyal is one of those things.
1:44.5	If we don't learn to deal with it well, it can affect our mental health in such a severe way.
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