Performative Allies (w/ Jeffrey Bowyer-Chapman)

Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer

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4.8 • 15.6K Ratings

🗓️ 31 July 2020

⏱️ 68 minutes

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Summary

'Do you want to be an active ally, or do you just want to say that out loud?' Jeffrey Bowyer-Chapman (Judge/host on Canada's Drag Race, Unreal) joins Nicole to unpack racial traumas from childhood, discuss the systematic racism in society, and rise in performative allies instead of active ones. After the break, Nicole shares her experience finding love at a Lassens. Be an active ally. For a list of resources and ways to help, check out blacklivesmatters.carrd.co. Follow Nicole Byer: Twitter: @nicolebyer Instagram: @nicolebyer Facebook: www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedy Buy Merch: https://www.teepublic.com/stores/nicole-byer?ref_id=964 Order Nicole's book: www.indiebound.org/book/9781524850746 Advertise on Why Won’t You Date Me via Gumball.fm

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0:00.0	Why won't you date me?
0:10.0	Why won't you date me?
0:12.0	Why won't you date me?
0:14.0	Please, tell me why.
0:18.0	Oh, baby, welcome to another episode of Why Won't You Date Me.
0:27.0	A podcast or me Nicole Bire tries to figure out how I'm still single.
0:31.0	Even though you could spit in my coffee every morning and I'd go,
0:35.0	num num num num, spicy.
0:37.0	My guess today.
0:40.0	I fell in love with him on Unreal.
0:44.0	You've seen him on RuPaul's Drag Race.
0:46.0	You've seen him on American Horror Story.
0:50.0	It's Jeff, oh, and he is the host slash judge of Canada's Drag Race.
0:57.0	It's Jeffery Boyard Chapman.
0:59.0	Boo, boo, boo, boo, boo, boo, boo, boo, boo, boo, boo, boo, boo, boo, boo.
1:05.0	Oh my gosh, what a great intro.
1:07.0	You know, I try to keep them high energy and really fun because it's fun when you get credits said, right?
1:15.0	Yeah, it is, yeah, because I almost forget sometimes.
1:17.0	I mean, I don't know about you, but like my resume is certainly not the first thing that I like self-identify with on a daily basis.
1:25.0	In fact, I almost forget some of the jobs that I've done.
1:27.0	Like, oh, shit, that's right. I did do that, didn't I?
1:30.0	Yeah.
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