Perfect Man, Bad Sex, Money Problems, Baby Daddy Betrayal, & Effort Over Income

Dear Tisia

Relationship Restored

Society & Culture, Relationships

5.0 • 866 Ratings

🗓️ 20 October 2025

⏱️ 43 minutes

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This week’s Dear Tisia gets deep, raw, and real — exploring what happens when love looks right on paper but doesn’t feelright in practice.

💌 First, a woman finds her dream man — thoughtful, spiritual, generous — but there’s one problem: the sex just isn’t satisfying. Is it settling if everything else aligns but the chemistry doesn’t?

💔 Next, another caller faces the painful truth that love alone isn’t enough when your partner is financially unstable. Can emotional connection survive without financial compatibility?

😤 Then, a mother shares how the man who abandoned her during pregnancy came back — only to betray her again. She’s standing on business this time, fighting guilt, and reclaiming her power.

✨ In Btch You Smell Good,* we feature Bond No. 9 Greenwich Village (NYC) — a fruity-floral fragrance with lychee, water lily, praline, and vanilla that captures sophistication and sweetness all in one.

🚩 And in the Red Flag Report, new Hinge data shows that while many men think women want money, what most women really value is effort. So if effort isn’t rooted in what your partner actually needs — is it still love, or just performance?

👇 Drop your thoughts in the comments — which situation would be hardest for you to walk away from?

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0:00.0	You know what the weird things?
0:01.0	I just had this conversation.
0:02.4	First of all, love ain't enough. Like, he loved my dirty bath water. He love, you know. And I think I just said this, that there are some women that have had these wins with men. And they kind of boast and brag on my, I'm like, I can get a man. All my men take me out. All the niggas that I'm day, they buy me stuff. It don't count if it ain't a man you like.
0:23.2	It don't count if it ain't somebody.
0:24.6	Okay. I can get a man. All my men take me out. All the niggas that I'm day, they buy me stuff.
0:21.3	It don't count if it ain't a man you like.
0:23.2	It don't count if it ain't somebody.
0:24.6	Yeah, you can go get an oompa lupa or some little raggedy man off the street to do it. But it's like it don't count if it's somebody that. So it doesn't count baby that he loves your dirty bath water and he'll do anything for you and he's obsessed with you if he ain't got no job no car and no place to stay
0:41.3	Obsessed with indeed.
0:42.8	Baby, yes, he's obsessed with you.
0:44.7	Yeah.
0:45.7	He needs to be obsessed with LinkedIn.
0:47.7	Okay.
0:48.4	Like that's what he needs a job.
0:50.7	It's like, yes, he's obsessed with you.
0:53.2	He is homeless.
0:54.3	He is seeking shelter. he's obsessed with you. He is homeless. He is seeking shelter.
0:56.0	He is obsessed with you.
1:17.2	Hey, y'all, welcome back to Dear Tasia. We got some sniffles going on today.
1:19.3	I don't know what's going on.
1:20.3	You know how you just did your makeups nipples or you just did your makeup sniffles.
1:24.7	Only the girls that know, no, no.
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