Pearl & The Threatening Narcissistic Abuser | Domestic Violence & Narcissist Abuse

Narcissist Apocalypse: Patterns of Abuse

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🗓️ 25 November 2024

⏱️ 110 minutes

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In this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, Brandon talks with Pearl about her tumultuous upbringing, her first abusive marriage, and the abusive relationship that unfolded in the aftermath. Pearl began a relationship with a co-worker, who initially seemed supportive but later revealed his true self, including explosive anger, jealousy, and controlling behavior. To keep Pearl invested in the relationship, her ex would use all types of threats whenever he felt Pearl might be slipping away. It's a story of jealousy, rage, control, trauma bonds, manipulation, addiction, sexual coercion, physical abuse, suicide threats, death threats, harassment, anxiety, lies, love bombing, mental health, self compassion, and monitoring. *** CONTENT WARNING - This episode discusses physical abuse, sexual coercion, and suicide threats. *** If you want to be a guest on our survivor story podcast, please click here or send us an email at [email protected] To help out our podcast, please fill out our listener survey, click here. PODCAST RECOMMENDATIONS: Perfect Prey With Dr. Christine Cocchiola | Click Here The Covert Narcissism Podcast | Click Here Something Was Wrong | Click Here When Dating Hurts Podcast | Click Here If you or someone you know are experiencing abuse, you are not alone. DomesticShelters.org offers an extensive library of articles and resources that can help you make sense of what you're experiencing, connect you with local resources and find ways to heal and move forward. Visit www.domesticshelters.org to access this free resource. If you need help moving due to domestic violence, Shelter Movers may be able to help you. They operate by referral. Clients may be referred by any person of authority (social worker, doctor, police, crisis counselor, teacher, etc.) or public agency (shelter, hospital, school, workplace, place of worship, sexual assault centre, etc.). To reach them, click here. Join our new Community Social Network at https://community.narcissistapocalypse.com/ Join our Instagram Channel at https://www.instagram.com/narcissistapocalypse Join our Youtube Channel at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpTIgjTqVJa4caNWMIAJllA Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:26.2	On this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, we talk with an abuse survivor named Pearl,
0:32.9	and Pearl was in a relationship with a threatening abuser.
0:36.9	It's a story of control, jealousy, accusations, traumawick, and with me today, we have Pearl. How are you? I'm good. How are you? I am doing well.
1:17.8	Thank you for asking and thank you for being here. And if you want to be a guest like Pearl is today,
1:23.4	please do go to our website at Narcissistapocalypse.com and click on the guest form button at the top of
1:28.7	the page. And there you can read all of our instructions. And please read them all and either
1:32.8	send us an email at Narcissist Apocalypse at gmail.com or fill out our guest form and press
1:38.9	the submit button. And please do send it in the format that we ask for. And we do have a content
1:44.0	warning for this episode
1:45.6	as we do discuss suicide threats, sexual coercion, and physical abuse. So that is your content
1:51.6	warning for today. And today you're going to hear Pearl's story. And Pearl was in a constant
1:56.5	state of being controlled by accusations. And the trauma bond was big here with Pearl too.
2:02.6	So it was really tough to leave.
2:04.3	So she's going to validate a lot of what people went through today.
2:07.9	So big thank you to Pearl for being here.
2:10.1	And now I'm going to get out of my way and your way.
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