Paying For Sex: A Man's Case For Pay-To-Play

The Curious Girl Diaries

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Sexuality, Health & Fitness

4.0 • 597 Ratings

🗓️ 9 March 2026

⏱️ 34 minutes

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On this Man-Splain It to Me Monday, we’re diving into the controversial idea of paying for sex—yep, we’re going there. 😏 I kick things off with my perspective before playing Sir InQ’s take on why some men think escorts are the cleanest, most drama-free option compared to dating or having side pieces. His argument? Sometimes “free” sex comes with the biggest price tag—emotional entanglements, lies, and life-blowing consequences. 💋 As a woman, I admit it’s hard for me to wrap my head around paying for sex… but hearing his reasoning definitely made me think. After his breakdown, I share my honest reaction and why I think this might be a male-only solution. Hit play and tell me whose side you’re on. THE PRIVATE PODCAST IS HERE! GO TO ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.thecuriousgirldiaries.com/exclusive⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ TO SIGN UP! To learn more about Sir Inq, go to: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/sirinq⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn how to master your hard ons and satisfy your partner every time, go to: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.erikeverhard.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and get 30% off when you use the code CURIOUSGIRL at checkout. To learn more about the ancient sex technique of Pompoir go to:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.gohddess.com/curiousgirl⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and get 25% off your order! Thank you for supporting my affiliates who help keep this show FREE: To master hand jobs, and rock your partner’s world, go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.rockthebedroom.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and use the code CURIOUSGIRL10 at checkout for a 10% discount! Honeypot CBD Lube (I HIGHLY recommend this!) Click⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and use code CURIOUS10 for 10% off your purchase! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0	Hey everyone, welcome to The Curious Girl Diaries podcast. I'm Layla London, aka The Curious Girl.
0:09.0	Now just to let you know, this podcast is not suitable for work. It's also not suitable for
0:15.0	anybody under 18. But the rest of you consenting adults, let's get ready to talk about my sex life, sex in general, and everything in between, an explicit, raunchy, fun detail.
0:28.6	All right, here we go.
0:33.9	You're paying for the look.
0:36.6	You're paying for the feel. You're paying for the look, you're paying for the feel, you're paying for the girlfriend experience, or you're just paying for the slut experience.
0:45.7	When the boogie board hits to short, the ride and experience is over.
0:52.8	Clean, cut, and dry. there's no emotional attachment going on there's no
1:00.5	keeping contact going on it is paid to play but when the play is over and the pay is over
1:10.7	everything is over free box pay is over everything is over
1:11.8	free box isn't always
1:14.0	the best box
1:15.2	it will always come down
1:16.8	to another woman
1:17.6	in the mind of a lot of women
1:20.6	they want to go out
1:22.1	they want to be treated great
1:24.3	they want to be fucked good
1:26.0	they want this they want that who's going to fuck you like you want to be treated great. They want to be fucked good. They want this. They want that. Who's going to
1:29.1	fuck you like you want to be fucked?
1:37.4	Hey everyone. Welcome to the Curious Girl Diaries podcast. I am Layla. Happy Monday, guys. It is Mansplain It to Me Monday. And I think there's a really
1:50.1	interesting topic. This is about paying for sex. Yes, pay to play. This is kind of a strange subject for me.
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