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So I would just say in conversations with these men like pay attention to the tone

If he can never admit that he doesn't know something or that he would like to learn more about something

If he's just sort of on this pedagogical

Lecture to you about something that he knows a lot about and doesn't is not interested in like you having a back and forth with him

I would say those are all red flags look at the books on his shelf

And he only has books written by men and he only like likes movies made by men and he only like I mean if it's like

I mean, there's a bunch of classics

It's like okay men who are misogynistic love like caroac and like Hemingway and like they only read male authors

And they're always talking about their pain and they only watch Quentin Tarantino movies

And it's like they're very pretentious in a way that is very male-centric and I don't think like if you look at a man's bookshelf

And it's only books written by men or his music library

He only listens to music made by men too. It's like if a man can't appreciate like anything that was made by a woman

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