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subject to patiently waiting for my man to settle down. Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm seeking advice, but I know what you are going to tell me.

I have a man in my life that I've been with for three years.

I say that I've been with him because he has not been with me.

Well, not the whole time.

I have seen him out with other women a few times while we were supposed to be dating.

I also made sure he saw me, and then I go home and wait for him to call or come by and lie to me about what I saw.

It bothered me at first, but I'm used to it now.

At first, I messed up and told my friends and family how his actions hurt me.

Big mistake.

I'm a lot wiser now and I act like things are going great in my relationship so they don't

judge me.

They can't stand my man because of me.

My sister-in-law works with a woman that he was seeing around Christmas time.

The lady bought him a TV for Christmas and he gave it to me for my bedroom.

I wanted to thank the lady for her contribution.

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