What are you going to tolerate and what will you not?

We can look at this personally, professionally, and culturally.

So you need to consider how are you going to allow other people to treat you,

whether that's your kids or your wife.

Maybe you guys are getting into an argument and she's raising her voice or

maybe she's resorting to personal attacks and little jabs. you have every right and I think a responsibility to say,

hey, I'm not going to be treated like this.

You're a man of action. You live life to the fullest, embrace your fears, and boldly

chart your own path. When life knocks you down, you get back up one more time, every

time. You are not easily deterred, defeated, rugged, resilient, strong. This is your life,

this is who you are. This is who you will become at the end of the day and after all is said and done you can call yourself a man.

Men passivity is the antithesis to masculinity. I believe at the root and the core of what it means to be a man is to

acknowledge what's going on around you to see the injustices, to see the

problems that people are struggling with that you might be struggling with and then assert yourself

in the most positive and effective ways possible to create change personally personally, professionally, and even culturally.

But if you look around in society today, we are with an abundance of men who are

weak and timid and passive and cowardly.

And I think that part of the reason that the Order of Man movement

over the past nine and a half years has had so much success

is because in a way I'm willing to say what so many men are thinking.

I can't tell you how often I get messages from men who say things like,

oh man I really resonate with your message, you're saying the things I've been thinking for a long time.

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