Welcome back. This is part two of our response to Jill Duggers blog post called more than sex how to love your husband.

If you haven't listened to part one, go back and listen to that one first. That's the previous podcast.

We're diving into the second half of her article right now.

So there was a lot of hubbub about, well maybe just in the Dugger community, I don't know, I'm a part of that community.

But there was a lot of hubbub. A lot of people were saying Jill's dividing the internet with her,

with her blog post where she gives quite a few points that she lives by and that she believes have made her a better wife for her husband.

And again, Jill, I want to hear what Derek does for you.

But if if they're doing these things equally, I think they're really cool things.

Obviously if it's her doing all these things in him being like, serve me woman, then it's, I don't think he would.

I think that's why it's dividing the internet. I think a lot of people are assuming that's their relationship.

I don't think that's their relationship, but I think a lot of people see a conservative Christian family like the Duggers and see a woman trying really hard to make her husband happy and the husband being like, serve me wife.

That's the thing about all these points. Don't gossip name called joking. Go to bed fresh. Look nice for him.

There's always the counter like he's going to look nice for you. He's going to go to bed fresh for you. And it's like this. All these things only work.

If it's 100% 100% it's not 50% 50% in a marriage. It's 100% 100% and you have to be all in together.

And you each put the others happiness before your own. If one's putting theirs happiness before their own and they're like,

also putting their happiness before the others, then it doesn't work. So these things only work. I think we did this said this last time, but it should go without saying like,

the best marriages are 100, 100, not 50, 50.

I will say this though. Like when Dalin was working outside of the home.

Now he's kind of in this trench with me and we're kind of like falling apart together trying to care for kids full time.

But when he was leaving the home like he would get ready and get nice and get showered because he had to go to work.

And he would come home fresh and he would come home like ready to go. And I would be the one at home who was not fresh and he was not ready.

And he was like more possibly more like dirty and disgusting and sweaty than when I woke up.

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